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She doesn't seem to want to talk to me
So I have liked this girl pretty much all of my life. I have been talking to her every once in a while trying to build courage and so I finally attempt to call her and tell her how I feel about her. I had to text her first to make sure it was alright to call. She said she was about to eat dinner with the family so she'd tell me when it was alright. She can't talk past a certain time and she texted me after that time and said that she couldn't talk now because it was past the time and wanted me to text what I wanted to say instead.
I'm pretty sure she knows what I'm trying to tell her since someone pretty much told her I liked her. So I said I rather call her instead and asked if i could call tommorrow. She said she didn't know what she'd be doing tommorrow but I could try and then said "sorry". I asked if she could tell me when she was free then and she said "i'll try". Recently she has gotten involved in sort of a long distance relationship.
Should I take this as a polite "I don't want to talk to you?", a "I'm kind of nervous about this" or what?
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From a girls perspective it looks like she's not interested but since she's in a relationship she must have been crushing on this guy before while you were trying to talk to her and tell her how you feel. Girls love it when guys flirt so try to be as friendly as you can and don't hold back so she knows more about you and hey, ya never know, she may ditch this long distance boy because as you maybe have heard, long distance relationships don't last too long.
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Take it as she's nervous about what's going on,that's good that you mention that she was involved in a long distance relationship because maybe she might probably be scared that you may not be interested in having one,that you are the type that just wants to date for a while or she just needs some time to figure out things,and get everything together.Don't worry I'm sure this mood is just temporary.
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She is certainly nervous.
Whether she is nervous because she wants to reject you, or if she is just generally nervous when a guy shows interest in her is something we can't be sure of, you'll have to trust your own gut on that one.
What I can be sure of though is that it is awfully impolite to ask a person out when you already know that person is in a relationship, even if it is just a 'sort of a long distance' thing.
Always find out if the person you are trying to pursue is taken or not before you try and make your move! If you don't know for sure, ask them straight up, because that is less embarrassing and less painful for the object of your affection then putting them in the awkward position of turning you down because they are taken.
Chill out and find out for sure what her relationship status is. If she is taken, be gentlemen and back off. If she isn't, give it a few more gentle prods or take the plunge and just ask her out. If she doesn't seem any more receptive, back off.
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