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My best friend boyfriend
My best friend and me like the same guy but i dont want to tell her that i like him to. She talks about him all the time and it makes me sad becuase i have to keep my feeling inside. He asked her to homecoming so i dont know what to do. If i should tell her how i feel or just go on like nothing happen
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ouch thats a hard situation your in.i would say deffitly telll her if u are sure that she will take it okay.you dont have to feel guilty for liking him its not your fault.if your not so sure how ur relationship will be afterward then dont tell her at all.you dont want onme relationship to ruein a friendship
well,let me know how it all works out
love,lizzie
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well if it comes up in the convo then ya i mean you have a right to like someone but make sure she knows you srent going to try to steal him away or anything.
dont feel guilty for likeing him you have every right to but try not to go on and on anout him for example:omg did you see his lips ooo i just loved his lips.i dont think she will aprecaaite it much
dont try to keepthis a big secret this and dont make it a big deal just casaully say well i think _______ is cute too dont worry he is all yours though!!
i hope i helped
if you need more help just ask away
~nikki~
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I'm actually in the situation right now, except the boy that we both like is our other best friend, and he asked her to homecomming... it's kind of complicated. Haha.
When I told my friend that I liked him, and was going to tell him, she got very defensive about it, and said "Why would you do that if we like each other?" I thought that he had the right to know that I liked him.
I wouldn't go on like nothing happened, because chances are, you'll regret it later, and it'll be a huge sticky mess.
Talk to your friend, definitely. It all depends on her reaction. If she's fine with it, then more power to you. If not, then try to explain your point of view to her.
I can't tell you how my story ends, because I haven't had the chance to tell him how I feel yet. :]
I hope everything works out for you.
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I think that even though this guy may like your friend, if you and her are really that close then you should feel comfortable being able to tell her that you are crushing on the same guy. Before you tell her you should say that you are only telling her because your comfortable with your relationship enough to be able to tell her how you really feel. Because the guy already asked her to homecoming, you should let them go and let them enjoy themselves(enjoy yourself too don't get all jealous) because you'd want her to do the same thing for you. Me and my friend always like the same guys but since we are able to talk, it never messes up our friendship if one of us gets the guy.
good luck babe !!
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