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Having a baby.
Let me start of by saying, I'm 18 and I'm not in college yet, I'll be going when I'm 19, right now I have a job and I pay for an apartment. I wanted to experince life alittle after highschool. I have a boyfriend, He's 20. I've dated him, for about 2 years. My parents don't like him, I don't think they understand the relationship. My mom says he's to old for me? My dad thinks I can do better. He's a really great guy though and I truely thought my parents would have loved him. He is in college, Has a job and he's really nice to everybody. Me & him never had sex until alittle while ago, I told him i wanted to wait intil after highschool, he understood me. My first time ever having sex, I got pregnant. I'm on birth control & we used a condom. I'm not showing yet, the docters told me I was pregnant & I told my boyfriend. Were both scared to tell my parents, They'll want me to give it up for adoption, And I can NEVER do that. I wouldn't live with myself. I don't know how i'm going to give this baby a good life, But I will. I can't tell my parents, they will disown me. I'm so afraid.
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I'm sure this is a very scary time for you. You're very brave to want to keep your baby.
I got pregnant my senior year in high school. I'd had plans to go away to UCF, get a master's degree, and then start working. After I got pregnant everything changed. I had to get a job and a place to live. Instead of going to university I had to go to the local community college part time. Instead of going for my masters, now I'm happy to be finishing up my A.S.
My daughter is three years old now. I'm married and we have our second one on the way. Everything was hard at first. Telling my parents was awful. They got over it, and since then they've helped me out a lot. I didn't tell them until I was in my second trimester.
If you need someone to talk to, I'm available. I wish you so much luck. Everything will work out alright.
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