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unrequited love
first of all i think i spelled unrequited wrong but whatever. 13/f ok well i really, really, really like this guy A LOT! but there are a few problems. 1. he has a girflried 2. she is one of my friends 3. we (me and him) are really good friends 4. well we're always joking around and we're the kind of friends whose conversations go like: your ugly! your mom! go die! but we're always totally kidding 5. it's really complicated 6. even if he broke up with his girflriend, I don't think he would like me
so I don't know what to do. I REALLY REALLY REALLY like him! please give me some advice
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Ok. I'm sure you're going to get tons of answers from girls that have been in the same situation and get advice from their past experiences.
So I decide you should have a guy's point of view.
First of all, whats more important, your friendship with his girlfriend, or the fact you, and i quote, REALLY REALLY REALLY like him?
and if you're positive which it is; theres your answer right there
BUT..
If you're not entirely sure, wait a while after theyve been broken up, and get closer to him, once you think theyve both moved on, start flirting a LOT with him. After that just go with the flow,
If he's the outgoing type, he'll flirt back instantly, and after a while possibly ask you out. Unfortunately theres another side to those outgoing people; they like to flirt just for fun.
If he's shy, start of slow, then lay it on really thick so he can tell you have a "thing" for him.
Remember, theres no absolute here. All i can say is go for it, and no regrets.
Well I hope I helped you here.
--Connor
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Consider which is more important, how you feel about him, or your friendship with his him and his girlfriend.
I wouldn't do anything to break them up, because that could end really messy, and jeopardize your friendship with both of them.
I was in this position a while ago, and I waited until they broke up, and then I got really close to him.
If you think it's possible that he might like you, you may want to do that. But it is possible that he could only see you as a friend. Has he ever sent you signals that he might like you?
Wait and see how their relationship goes, and make decisions accordingly.
I hope I helped. :]
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