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Christian devoted girlfriend
In highschool I learned that don't just getgirlfriend because you want it and that's what God wants in my youth club. I agree with my leaders. How do I find one? How do I get the courage to ask? To date? To entertain her?
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Well, I dont mean to offend anyones religion or anything by my comment but nowhere does it say in the bible that you HAVE to find a girlfriend, there are people that are completely content with being single. Start talking to girls and when you find one that you like and would want to start seeing then do so. Find out if you share some common interests and if you think shes interested in you too, and then ask her if she would like to date you. Maybe go to a movie or dinner or something. As for the courage thing, I suggest trying to figure out if she feels the same way towards you, in case youre afraid of rejection. Then just go for it, if she says no, there is always alot of other girls out there that Im sure youd be compatible with
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I don't think that God would want you to just find a girlfriend. I would think that God would want you to be with someone that you really cared about. God would want you to try to find love, not just randomly date people. I am Christian and I felt as if my highschool classmates were being very nonchristian by having so many boyfriends and girlfriends. I waited for the person that I felt I might be able to marry, have kids with, spend the rest of my life, and the rest of eternity with. Don't date just to date. If you are interested in meeting girls to find someone that you like, not just to find someone that you can date, you'll find her. You don't even have to look. God will lead her to you or you to her. All you have to do is recognize it when He does. If you happen to find someone that you like, the courage will come. Good luck. :)
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Were I live we have alot of people who go to the YMCA & meet people, Or the gym.
But if thats not your style, You can always find girls at thr jobs. Like my friend asked a girl out who worked at Dunkin donuts. Or at the mall.
I'm sure theres girls at your church too?
When you find one, you find out about her & then ask her out on a date according to her personality.
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