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My boyfriend and I just broke up, and now I'm very depressed, I don't know what I should do to make me feel any better. Tomorrow's the first day of school and I don't wanna look too depresse and everything. What would I have to do to try to forget about this?
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You would most likely have to skip time to forget about that because a break-out can be rather tramatic on one. I suggest not having a class with that kid.
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You need to cry about it for awhile.
Then go chill with your friends.
If you cry about it, your letting it all so you wont burst into tears when its the wrong moment.
Then being around friends usally brightens anybodys day.
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i suggest that you go to a movie hang out with family or friends.... do something fun because it is your last day of summer... rent a movie on pay per view go to the store....
do stuff you like to do.
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Well, today I suggest doing all the wallowing and everything as much as you can. Cry a good cry, smack a pillow, write a poem or a sad song or something, whatever you need to do. And then start focusing on cheering up. Invite a friend over to hang out, dance around in your room to your favorite song, maybe go out to the mall and buy some back-to-school clothes, go eat some ice cream and watch a funny movie, read a good book or magazine, and just realize that what's always a possbility at a new year of school? New kids, and new kids means: new guys which COULD mean.. new boyfriends. :] So there'll be other guys you can go for and date! You just got to think positive. I hope I helped.
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Wallow for a little while.
Pick a couple days to be depressed, watch sappy movies, eat junk food.
But then after the two days are up, go out with friends, be positive, have a good day, go out with people, have fun. I know the best and fastest way to get over a break up is to be with friends, or with people, and laugh a lot.
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Well, my number one thing to do when getting over a break up is to just hang out with friends, other guys, that kind of thing. Just do things that you enjoy, and in no time i think you will be okay. Just tell yourself that it's not the end of the world, and you will meet another guy, that's even better this school year.
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The fact that it is the first day of school for you tomorrow is actually a brilliant opportunity to get over your ex. Obviously it will be very hard, but think of it as a fresh start. You are now single and you can go into school tomorrow with your head held high and start over. I'm not suggesting you pounce on the first boy you see - rebound relationships are not a good idea. However you can focus on meeting new people and getting to know them.
It's hard to get over a relationship, I've been broken up with before and it's awful. But after a while you move on and find something new. I know right now it seems like that won't happen, but I promise it will. You're allowed to be unhappy, but put on a brave face tomorrow and get involved in the new school year.
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