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I'm confused. 15/f
My ex girlfriend is flirting with me [she has a boyfriend though] and she keeps saying she wants to kiss me. Knowing her... she would. But she told me she doesn't want me to get the wrong idea. Then she goes on about having dreams about me and missing me, missing the things we did. and then there's things about "If only I didn't mess up" [when she broke up with me] "I will always have a thing for you" "Can i steal a kiss?" A part of me wants to kiss her but I can't because I refuse to do that when she has a boyfriend.. I dont know what to do. She says she doesn't want to lead me on but she's already doing that. What can I do? Just ignore the things she says?
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I agree with everyone here, but look at it like this. If you two would get back together. What is going to stop her from doing this to one of her other ex boyfriends while you two are together. That is what it seems like this gal will be doing....
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Don't ignore her. If you do, her advances will probably only get worse. For some reason she wants your attention desperately.
It sounds like you are intelligent enough to realize how unfair and distasteful what she is doing is. Her behavior isn't the behavior of a kind or righteous person; it's the behavior of a selfish brat.
If you want to be with her, tell her straight up "I would love to go back out with you, but I wont do a single thing with you as long as you have a boyfriend. As long as you are still in a relationship, stop teasing me." And then don't do ANYTHING, not even hold her hand, unless she is single. If she won't lay off teasing you (no matter what she is saying she is definitely teasing you) then you might need to get some space from her.
It's fine for her to be confused, to want both you in her boyfriend, but it's not fine for her to put you through hell because of it. Tell her to straighten up or leave you alone.
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jsut to let you know, you're being a really good person for not kissing her. heres some advice: DONT DO IT! her boyfriend WILL find out. i know girls just like her who always like to start drama and want everything to themselves. ignore her or talk to her about it. just dont do anything with her besides talk. and dont let her walk all over you either.
good luck,
milennnnnnna
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This is so unfair, putting you in a horrible situation like this. As she's your ex, it can be quite hard for you to let go and resist temptations to kiss her. Well done for not giving in.
Set her straight. Tell her you are not prepared to ruin the relationship she has with her boyfriend.
She said she doesn't want to lead you on or get the wrong idea, so this doesn't sound like she likes you in that way.. perhaps she's just using you because she knows you'll always be there?
Whatever she's thinking, it's only okay for her to say these things if she's not in a relationship. Have a serious talk with her, because only she knows what's going on inside her head. It's up to her if she wants to let you in.
Good luck. Hope things work out whatever way you want them to.
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hey
if you like her still then wait to see if she breaks up with her boyfriend and then kiss her. tell her your not going to kiss her unless her and her boyfriend break up.if you really dont like her and you know a relationship wont work out then ignore what she says. i know it might be hard but try finding another girl instead of her. just listen to your heart and if deep down inside you still have feelings for her tell her and maybe she will go out with you again,but if you know your just going to get hurt again or you truly dont like her enough,then tell her to stop flirting with you.i dont know you but it seems like you still like her and havent completely moved on.just do what your heart tells you to.
best of luck
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