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army/ overeacting
Well first off, my boyfriend is going away for training for the army wich is for half a year, and the most i didnt see him for before was only for two days. Idk what to do i still want to be with him, But he doesnt trust me, he thinks im going to do stupid stuff because hes gone. & im not because it wouldnt be worth it , but how do i get him to trust me, and how do i cope with his leaving, and how do i comfort him about him not knowing whats going in my life.
second off, i hurt all the time, i mean its over little things to. Like i hate it when my boyfriend has conversations with girls or when another girl makes him smile, but i always try and tell myself that hes my boyfriend not there and this never works. i dont keep my boyfriend from his friend girls but i dont want to hurt. We have discussed this topic more than once, But i cant seem to make myself happy about the situation. Please help me on to fix this.
any answer would be apreciated <33
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wow, my friend is basically going through the same thing.
i tell everyone this. if your boyfriend really cared for you and loved you, and he knew you cared for him the way it seems you do, he'd trust you. and i'm not trying to sound mean by saying that. but i think its the truth. and if he doesn't believe that and ends up dumping you, then that should be the end of it. i mean plus, you're not going to see him for half of a year. that's so much time to get over him and meet another boys. just know there is always mail, cause one of my friends went to the national guard training, and we write eachother back and forth. just look forward to letters and stuff like that. which brings me to your question about comforting him about not knowing whats going on. well i think you can tell him whats going on, hence, letters. write him a letter everyday that will show that you care enough for him. i mean its the only thing you can do right? get a notebook and have that be the notebook you write the letters in or something. that way you'll remember easier (at least that would work for me :P:P).
second part:
you really just gotta get over the whole feeling, i know its hard. but you gotta trust him. if a girls gonna be hitting on him, he's probably thinking about you the whole entire time. so i wouldn't worry about it. another thing, you should get to know some of his chick friends, then you might develop a friendship with them which won't make stuff weird. does that help?
good lucky hunny. if you have any other questions about all this, feel free to leave me one in my comment box. :)
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Hello,
I've had some trust issues with my girlfriend before still kinda do...When it comes to trusting you're lover sometimes you have to show them how much they mean to you & how losing them would hurt you...My girlfriend has lied to me a few times about things & we found ways to work through them...I left on vaction for a month to another state & the whole time i wondered if she was doing something bad behide my back until i called her & she was in tears the whole time i was gone...You have to show you're boyfriend how much he means to you & how losing them is the last thing you want...Also with the whole trust thing show him you're cell phone records or anything that will help show you wont be doing anything but missing him....
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