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Why my grandmother and mother want me to be something which im not.


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 4:41 pm

Okay im 13 and every since i was like 7 to now. My grandmother and mother always wanted me to be something that i not wanted to be. They always wanted me to be a girly girl. I am a girl. I just don't like to wear skirts and i have a good reasons why i don't. Everytime we go to a clothing store. Here they go this pink shirt is cute. I say i don't llike pink. I love purple. Here they go what type of girl don't like pink. Every girl love pink. Everybody how do i get them off my back and how do i explain them that im not girly girl. Please help.

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How can you know she's ready


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 4:39 pm

Am from S.A.(cape town)Am a guy am(17)and my girlfriend (15) we've bin datin' for 2 years and six months and i think its time for us to have sex but i dont if shez ready nd i thnk of askin her bt am afraid it myt freak hr out,nd i dont want to lose her.thank you plz help

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Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:54 pm

i think being in a relatioship is very special and think I should wait for the right guy but I've been masturbating recently and I am egar for sex I'm 16 and a virgin and these urges I have tell me I need sex but I really want to wait for mr right I tried masturbation but the urges are still there are there any other ways I can control these urges ?

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i love him


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:32 pm

I love thos boy so much but I don't know how to tell him. I don't think he's had experiance with girl so I'm not sure which way to go about it ?

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Protective boyfriend?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:26 pm

17/m

So I have friends that are girls, they all say they want a protective boyfriend. Now I kind of know what they mean by that but also I'm still confused because some say they want one but then they get a guy then say their too overprotective or obsessed or something like that.

What is a general idea of a protective boyfriend?

Could you give me examples lol

Thank you

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love?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:25 pm

Right this is a tricky situation! This boy who goes to my school and I've know for like 2 years has recently admitted he fancies me :D but I used to like hoim but not anymore. When I said I didn't like him anymore he said that it dosnt matter he has a girlfriend anyway but that was the same day he said he likes me and wanted to be with me ? Has he really got a girlfriend or did he just say that because I rejected him! And how can you tell if someone actually likes you?? Thanks for your help! :)

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Pen Pals: Is it possible to fall for him?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 2:41 pm

So yesterday I created my ad on PenPalsNow.com for myself. And I looked up people in my age group. Checking a couple pages, I came across this boy from the UK. He seems like a really nice guy. And so cool at that. I was wondering...

...is it possible to fall for him? I mean if we talk a while, then send photos and maybe Skype?

By the way, I'm a sixteen year old female.

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obsessed with my boyfriend


Posted Friday June 21 2013, 10:56 pm

Hi everyone so I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 19 almost 20 and we have been together for over a year and I am obsessed with him. Not in a stalker way or anything but I am so in love with him. I have never had to many friends because I like to stay clear of drama but my best friend is dating my brother so I don't enjoy hanging out with them...and when my boyfriend hangs out with his friends I have nothing to do...ever..unless I'm working. And I don't really like many of his friends ..they're obnoxious immature and rude. What can I do to be less obsessed with him and maybe make a friend. I feel pathetic but my life completely revolves around him..he didn't make it that way ..I did...and I don't know how to adjust it. Thank you!!



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does this guy like me or no?


Posted Friday June 21 2013, 4:42 pm

15/f this guy 17/m we have been talking for like two months now he goes to my school. we talk all the time and its not awkward or anything we are really good friends and we talk about anything and everything. he'll usually always text me first and he'll say he thinks im a cool person and a cool person to talk to, im attractive, im really down to earth, nice and everything. and the other day we were talking about how when we both at a party I was drunk and that was the first we were talking really and he wasn't drinking and I wanted to hook up (make out) with him just because it was a spontaneous thing but he was like I cant im talking to this girl they had like a thing or whatever but now that's over I was telling him how that night I didn'...

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Is it a good idea to progress things with my friend, does he like me back?


Posted Friday June 21 2013, 4:39 pm

For a while now, I've liked my guy friend as more than a friend, but I'm not sure he likes me back.
He always reads my blog when no one else does, and he talks to me when I sit next to him in lessons. When I sit next to him, he acts comical and does things like take my ruler or swap out pens.
He sometimes leans on me when he's talking to the boy sitting the other side of me, and our elbows will often be touching for minutes at a time (with neither of us moving them).
I sometimes see him looking at me, and when he talks to me when we sit opposite each other, he often looks at me in the eyes.
We like the same things, so he often messages me links about them,, or puts funny things.

What do you think? ...

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All my boyfriend does is play video games and doesn't pay attention to me


Posted Friday June 21 2013, 3:30 pm

I'm an 18 year old girl and I've been dating my boyfriend who's 19 for a year now. We've been best friends for years. He moved away a bit over a year ago and moved back to be with me. Everything's been going great until recently. He still tells me he loves me and we're getting engaged soon, but recently all he's been doing is playing video games almost non-stop. I try to talk to him saying I want to spend more time with him; he says he's sorry and promises we'll do more together but it doesn't change. Even when we go out with friends, it's typically to his friends' place to play more games. What should I do? Does he not love me as much anymore? Am I doing something wrong? I try to see even if he'll let me play games with him but he plays wi...

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Am I too young for a boyfriend???


Posted Friday June 21 2013, 3:15 pm

I'm 13 and in the U.S. I have been liking this one boy for almost a year. And everyone keeps telling me that I am too young for a boyfriend. What age is too young??? And how do I avoid the comments like you're to young???

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is my boyfriend trying to break up?


Posted Friday June 21 2013, 8:24 am

Hi, we have been dating for 2 and a half years and we live together. he is a reserved and quiet person. what does he mean when he says,''he doesn't want to split up but he also don't to live like this,'' that means arguing most of the days. thanks guys!

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My boyfriend keeps ignoring me


Posted Thursday June 20 2013, 8:08 pm

Hello. Me and my boyfriend have been dating ever since May. We used to text a lot and then after that he had to go to two camps for two weeks and couldn't talk to me. Well now since he returned he does little to no texting me at all. He's ignored me for two days. He posts stuff on instagram but idk why he wouldnt see my texts! What should I do? Help me please!!! :(

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My Boyfriend Is Addicted To Porn?


Posted Thursday June 20 2013, 12:55 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years he has cheated on me last year, since then our affection has went out the door only time we are closed is when we have sex or if we are in bed sleeping other then that no hugs kisses or anything.... my niece recently started staying with us getting on my computer alot while we are at work so my put a parental software on it make sure she is nothing doing anything wrong but turns out that my boyfriend watches porn from the second I walk out the door even if I have sex or get him off before I leave for work and not only that the time stamps say he watches it at his lunch break and when he gets off 30mins before I get home? To top things off my niece has told me that he makes sounds ...

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Friends


Posted Thursday June 20 2013, 3:44 am

K so i am 12 and this guy started to sit by me all the time and copy me cuz we sat a table awy for lunch and i thought he was just doing it to annoy me but my friend knew he wasnt but she didnt tell me thn she told himtht i hated himbut i have liked him for like evr anywy wen she told him i hated him i wsntthere and he kept sayinghehated her so i kept asking himy but he wouodnt tell thn he rote it on a note and meand her have been groeing aprt since thn wat happened wewere the best of friends

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i want to get intimate but idk if i should just yet


Posted Tuesday June 18 2013, 11:11 pm

Im 16 and all of my friends have had their "time of the month." I havent. I really feel bad because im dating this guy and he tries to to intimate but i dot know if i should get intimate. Would it effect me at all if i would have sex even though i havent had my period?

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How to avoid my cheating boy friend


Posted Tuesday June 18 2013, 4:06 pm

How can i avoid my cheating boy friend

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scared about next year and not seeing him


Posted Tuesday June 18 2013, 6:55 am

Ok so im 14/f and the boy is 13. Im going to highschool next year and weve reccently started flirting alot. Ive liked him for about a year now. 2 nights ago we were at a school trip to a 4 day camp and on the last bonfire day, we sat together. He held my hand and pulled me closer because I was shivering, he put his arm around me and gave me hugs after we had to go to bed. I like him alot and he likes me alot. Problem is that we wont get to see each other very much after school ends. He wants to date me but in highschool. I dont really think it will end up being that way because ive ben in the situation with my ex boyfriend. I want to date him so badly. Hes the perfect guy for me and everytime I felt like moving on, something didnt let me in...

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Shyness


Posted Monday June 17 2013, 5:55 pm

I have trouble dealing with my shyness. It prevents me from making friends and asking girls out what should I do?

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