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why re guys so CONFUSING
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 6:42 pm
oky i love this guy wtih all my hear t and i would never let nything happen to him but he is been gettin into some bad stuff like gangs and espeacially drugs how do i help him get back to bein good....i mean we don't talk that much but i'm really worried about him....what do i do
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Boy problems
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 6:35 pm
Hey. i noticed that your a guy and you give good advice lol. Anyways.. i was wondering, whats a good way to meet someone that you see all the time but never talked to? Theres this guy at my middle school and i see him alot but inever talked to him n i really want to meet him. I dont want to look stuid and just say "HI!" randomly. What do guys perfer? How should i start a converstaion?
HELP PLEASE!!
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Do I dump him or not?
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 6:24 pm
13 GIRL
I'm going out with this guy and hes nice and all but I don't love him I only like him as a friend. I want to dump him but I'm to afraid if I do he'll tell everyone this horrible secret I told and trusted him with and this is a family secret. I really want to dump him because I really like this other guy and I think he likes me back. But the guy I like is my brother's friend who's one year older! What do I do? How do I make my boyfriend not tell anyone my secret? And how do I go out with the guy I like without making things with my brother and all??
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IMing him first?
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 6:07 pm
I read that you should never IM a guy first if you like him. Is that true? Is it bad if you do? Cause I want to talk to the guy I like so I do IM him first if I see he is on. Is it bad if I do that?
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why don't I hear from him?
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 5:54 pm
I met a man who seemed very interested in me. He gave me his phone number, I phoned him a few days later and he wanted to get together. He said he'd call back in a few days. After two weeks of not hearing from him I called him back. He apologized, said he had out of town guests and would try to get back to me in a week or two. It's been over two weeks and I haven't heard from him. Should I call him again or forget about him?
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Song about another girl
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 4:40 pm
16/f. My boyfriend writes music and he's pretty good at it. However, one of his more recent songs was pretty disturbing-- it was about another girl, a girl "see around school". He's never written a song for me before.
he assures me that it means nothing, that is was the only thing he could think of (that worries me in itself) at the moment, and that he wants to be with me not her.
Should I believe him? Is this any real cause for concern? Because it's really hurting me, I don't want to leave him but I'm starting to think maybe I should.
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Bad Dream?
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 3:34 pm
Okay me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months, and we were talking about a dream i had and then he started to tell me about his dream but then he stopped. i had to force him to tell me because he kept saying no, but he shouldnt have to hide anything from me. anyways he told me his dream. it hurt me so bad, i didnt show it because he seemed pretty upset and bothered by it also and ashamed but it realy hurt me , his dream was ; he was in his room or a room idk , with two other girls. having sex with them and stuff them doing stuff to him and stuff .......WHY W0ULD HE DREAM ABOUT THAT .. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THAT WAS IN HIS HEAD . he said he didnt know who the girls were, that they werent anyone, i want to belive him on that but ...
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Jelousy
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 3:32 pm
i guess i can say im jelouse, of when my boyfreind is with this girl in his classes and inbetween classes alot, and occsaionaly sits with her at lunch, i mean i trust him by all means, but i hate bein jelouse cuz it hurts me and effects my mood. but i hate seein them laffing together and im pretty sure what i see is a form of flirting... what should i do i mean do i have a reason to be jelouse if there kinda flirting...? he reassures me its nothing like that but when he first met her he was al like shes mad cool, we have so much in common , and shes in a lotta classes with me, and we walk together to our classes. it hurts, sometimes i just feel like shes on his mind when i want to b the one on his mind, and knowign that hes with her in gym and what not = / idkk i need advice
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Jelousy
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 3:32 pm
i guess i can say im jelouse, of when my boyfreind is with this girl in his classes and inbetween classes alot, and occsaionaly sits with her at lunch, i mean i trust him by all means, but i hate bein jelouse cuz it hurts me and effects my mood. but i hate seein them laffing together and im pretty sure what i see is a form of flirting... what should i do i mean do i have a reason to be jelouse if there kinda flirting...? he reassures me its nothing like that but when he first met her he was al like shes mad cool, we have so much in common , and shes in a lotta classes with me, and we walk together to our classes. it hurts, sometimes i just feel like shes on his mind when i want to b the one on his mind, and knowign that hes with her in gym and what not = / idkk i need <h1>advice
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immaturity...
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 1:54 pm
well I`m a 14-year-old girl and I`d say I`m pretty mature for my age. Although I`m a freshman, I understand things that most kids in my grade wouldn`t. I`m in the highest English class and I find many upperclass men relating to me more then anyone, because they say that I don`t act like a Freshman, nor do I look like one. but thats the thing. I can barely relate to the kids in my grade, especially the boys. I`m not trying to steriotype, but its the majority of them. I hate when I try to talk to them and they just end up saying or doing something stupid. I don`t exactly WANT a boyfriend, but it`d be nice, but I can`t find one in my grade, and I`m not about to date an upperclass boy. It pisses me off because all of my friends have had a long...
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Sadie Hawkins
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 10:55 am
14/f
There's this guy in school that I like that I dont're really talk to that often. I want to ask him to the Sadie Hawkins dance, but I'm not sure how to, thinking it might be kind of awkward because we don't talk that often. What would be a good way to ask him...and is it appropriate that I ask him? thanks.
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how can you tell? Is there any way?
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 6:13 am
I like this guy but I have heard that he may be gay is there any way of telling ?
please give me some answers
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idk if i like him or not!!
Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 1:35 am
of course this is about a boy. hes totally adorable and right now i like him so so much. but heres the thing. when im hanging out with him or talking to him online or on the fone, i totally dont like him. but wen we hold hands or watevr, or wen im just thinking about him, i totally like him!! hello whats the deal? why cant i like him all the time?
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I dont know whats wrong
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 11:42 pm
I cry like 2-3 times a week for one reason.
A boy,I will tell you my story.
He moved here about 3-4 years ago, he was a new kid so i just messed with him and thought he was cute.[I'll call him "B"]
Then we would talk online and stuff and see eachother around the neighborhood and stuff,so i had a crush on him.
He acted like he liked me, he would call me ,Im me, all that good stuff but he would say he liked my friend but he would like invite me over and stuff all the time.
Then I got over him , next year came around and i liked a totally different boy until the end of the year.
My Best friend came over and was pretty good friends with "B" so we would hangout , which made my crush o...
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a boy.. like always.
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 11:39 pm
15/f
I know this question is getting old but I'm in some need of advice. Preferably from a guy.
Alright, Well I'll just use my name and his.. I'm not ashamed:].
OK well heres the situation.. Mike was being all nice and sweet to me. I known him for a good year and I liked him last year and he liked me. Lets just say wrong move by me and I never got my chance with him. Well now this year we have a class together and we flirt like crazy. Well just recently my uncle fell ill and so Mike put "hope your uncle gets better sara" in his MSN Personal Message space. Well he's like my support system when I'm down. I always tell him he's the bestest and he says you are too. So basically it feels lik...
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my friend
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 11:16 pm
i have to very best friends who are also friends. my female friend has a lot of feelings for my guy friend. about a month ago he broke up with a girl who cheated on him a lot and always lied about where she was. the other week they were flurting a lot. now she has a whole lot of feelings for him. and we dont know what his intentions are with her. he stilld flirts a little and she has already told him that she doesnt want someone messing with her emotions and he agreed. but he still flirts with her. what do you think we should do? should she let him know how she feels? or should i do the ditry work and ask him for her how he feels about her? we just dont know what to do. she is afraid if she asks and he saids he doesnt see he that way that t...
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guy
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 10:58 pm
This confuses me to the point where it makes me sad.
Ill explain the situation.
A guy.
Me and my friend both like.
We all know eachother VERY well.
He claims he hates both of us.
He told me he didnt hate me anymore,yet he told someone else he did.
He tells he hates her and he likes me as a friend.
Yet, he wont talk to me at school.
But, sometimes he talks to her.
Usually , he'll try and get my attention but not talk to me.
Or when we are together, he will do something to her and not me[for attention],he'll just like give me this stare.
oh yeah, i forgot to mention that both of us did sex kinda stuff with him, but i did it more and he said he would do it with...
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My boyfriend.
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 10:54 pm
This is a long story but please read it I need help. My current boyfriend Kahn had a gf when i started to like him. He liked me too and we decided to go out when he dumped his other gf who was one of my good friends. But before he dumped her people found out what me and hi were planning to do. We ended uop going out but then i dumped him cause i didn't like him anymore. Then i started going out with robbby who i REALLY liked but all my friends started saying i was a slut to him. so we broke up and then i asked out Kahn again, even though i don't really like him. Should i dump him AGAIN, or shuld i stay with him because i dont want to be mean????????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!
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Why do I keep falling for cute boys!?!?!
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 10:33 pm
i dunno what they put in our water to make everyone look so fine! XD especially the boys! and i keep falling for them.. now I like 2 guys, mostly one of them, but I think its mostly based on looks... and I guess we can get along, but I dont even know! We're nice to each other and stuff.. and I hope he didnt figure out that I like him yet.. heh. And the other guy its the same too, but I also find his personality cute in a way, since I know him better. Ugh why do I keep doing this? I'm 13, a girl (no duh) in 7th grade, and I keep falling for boys! Or I just have like these feelings in me when I'm around them.. why did they all have to look so good! well.. alot of them, not all XP. ... maybe its the water?? (XD like in some book called the &q...
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EXS!
Posted Tuesday January 9 2007, 10:29 pm
So my first real boyfriend.. we went out for a long time. He didn't treat me right and for some reason he didn't really notice that.
So we were friends with benefits on the verge of a relationship again cept not. <- Ex 1
I was tired of waiting ..I dated this other boy. Completely different from my first. But we didn't last because it was better off to be friends.<- Ex 2
Ex 2... knows what my first did. How he hurt me and lied to me (not about little things, about drugs and who he liked [some other girl]). Ex 1 really broke my heart a couple of times.
Ex 2 told me he wants to kick Ex 1's ass.
Of course I want to hurt him [my first] but I don't. And I'm...
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