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the guys i like . . .


Posted Monday March 5 2007, 3:35 pm

okay i like this guy A LOT! and im not like REAL popular but im not a total geek and he is a skater but is way more popular than me. anyway i talk to him and he talks to me but is there anyway i can get him to like me? like ill flirt with him and he'll i gues flirt back but i don't think he likes me
well thanks <3

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how do I know if he is dumping me


Posted Monday March 5 2007, 1:14 pm

will we break up? Does space mean he doesn't love me anymore? I thought that we would be together forever and now...

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Livin situation


Posted Monday March 5 2007, 12:49 pm

So here’s the story. I've been dating the same girl for about two years. I transferred colleges to Columbus and needed a place to stay, and her brother offered me a place to stay. The first thing he said to me about the rules there were, "Come and go as you please, do whatever-just don't break anything." With this being said, about two weeks ago I had two guy friends and a friend who happened to be a girl from high school down to my place to drink. We all are underage, but didn't drive anywhere, get incredibly carried away with drinking or anything completely irresponsible-we just had a few drinks.
The next week my girl friend's brother called me on it and said nothing more than, as long as we don't drive or anyth...

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Posted Monday March 5 2007, 11:56 am

16/f.
so i like this guy and hes 19 turning 20. im turning 17 so its no big deal. i really do like him and i dont know what to do about it. we've been friends for about a year now but i just started liking him like a month ago.i know he liked me like in january but i didnt like him then. i started talking to him more and more on AIM and i just started liking him. now i talk to him usually everyday. the problem is that he lives like 20 minutes away and he doesnt have a car any more bc he got into some trouble. i dont know if he likes me anymore. like he IMs me almost everytime im on but idk he might think of me as a friend now. but like last week he asked me why i didnt have a bf and who i liked and then i had an away message on and ...

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My self esteem.


Posted Monday March 5 2007, 11:44 am

Hm well. My boyfriend & I have been going out for 8 months, and I love him more than anything. I know for sure I do. It's just sometimes I get really depressed, and when I'm listening to music alone or something like sad songs I just really upset with myself, and think I'm not good enough for him. He treats me amazing, and we're together constantly, everyday! It's just I don't know. I know he loves me, I do. I just have the lowest self asteem. I need it to be better. Hm. Is there anyway I can, cause like I don't really wanna tell him. Thanks.

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what do i do when i love someone but everything not working!


Posted Monday March 5 2007, 6:14 am

me and my boyfriend were together for about 6 months i went away and we both cheated he tryd to have sex with his x and it really hurt me so bad hes a compulsive liar to the point were he was goin to go to counceling now nothing is the same between us i love him so much i think im depressed when im not with him i sit at home waitin for him to call but he drinks to much im scared hel do it again. we fight about 3 times a day what am i sposed to do ! HELP

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Posted Monday March 5 2007, 3:01 am

When a guy does something that you don't like [as in touching boobs or something]

how do you say no [in a nice way] ?

and if you are too busy kissing.. would it be bad if you were to slap their hand?

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i love you?


Posted Monday March 5 2007, 12:55 am

i know another boy question! two weeks ago i invited aboy to come with me to a party. he came and we danced all night and he gave me a kiss on the chee before he left. for the past tw weeks we have been texting eachother non-stop. he ggoes to my old school so i dont see him a lot. but i cant stop thinking abbout him. i love him. but im scared to tell him this because im aafraid im going to freak him out. but i dont want to keep this texting back and forth thing going on if i dont really know how he feels. what do you think i should do? tell him or not?
xo

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Is it time to end?


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 11:25 pm

To get this out of the way... :D I am 16/f and this might be little bit long but please bear with me here :D

So I have been going out with this guy named Ryan for little over a month (which is my surprise and to everyone else as well because I never had relationship longer than 2 weeks but thats beside the point)

When we were hitting 2nd week into our relationship, he told me he loved me. I didn't say it back because I wasnt sure and he said it was okay and totally understanding so that's cool and out of the way.

But now it seems like I have to chase for him to like me. (well not exactly but I have to try and go out my way to ... well... like is the only word I can think of)

I mean...

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what do u think about this.


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 10:19 pm

hiiii.
well i just want to know if u guys think this is okay.
well my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months now. and well he tells me he love me. isnt it kind of early. i say it back but i dont know. I really doo like himm a lot i think i love him. but do u guys think we should be saying this already. plizz help me. Im confused.

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My ex boyfriend


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 10:13 pm

My ex boyfriend from seventh grade is i think still mad at me. we broke up really badly because someone got on my screen name and was telling him stuff for months. he thinks i was lying to him the whole time. its been 3 years now i hate to say it but everytime i see him in class i just feel all these feelings rush back. we didn't do anything like sex. but i don't think he likes me... he doesn't i.m. me or anything. but i think he's been pranking me lately. what should i do?

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makeout


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 10:06 pm

My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 2 months now..and all we have done is makeout, and that is all i am planning on doing with him, i don't believe in sex before marriage. but what kinds of things can we do to keep things interesting when together, or making out or w/e, but no tounge...and no sexual stuff beyond makeing out...????

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This is all totally honest. We're both 17. I'm a girl.


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 9:39 pm

Okay on Friday I had about 5 friends over, and well we drank a little. And everyone passed out except me and this guy. And he was kinda all over me, trying to kiss me and stuff. And I passed out and when I woke up we were cuddling I guess you could say. But now I feel totally violated. I mean, nothing happened between us that was "bad", if you will..'Cause I'm pritty sure I would remember. But I don't understand why I feel this way? 'Cause it was only cuddling right? Why do I feel like this? Is it normal? Is there something wrong with me? Help. =(

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he doesnt like me.


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 9:28 pm

ok ive had a crush on this guy and i didnt even know i was that obvious but obviously he found out, and he told one of my good friends whos practically neighbors with him that he didnt like me and only liked blonde girls. now im confused.. because i didnt even tell that many people, and the people i told, like more than half of them didnt even know the kid (they were in different teams) and the others i know wouldnt tell. otherwise.. how would he have known? also how would i act tomorrow? my mom said to act like myself but its kinda awkward since now i know. should i just act like nothing happened? im new at this, lol. like last year the same thing happened too, only i knew i was being really obvious, so it ended up with the guy knowing i l...

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Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 8:56 pm

Alright, here's the deal. My best guy friend has recently sort of been brushing his hands up against mine and stuff, I don't know if it's accidental or on purpose, but it's been happening alot. I like him alot, nobody knows it. I want to hold his hand so bad, but i'm afraid that if I do i'll look like an idiot....like if what he has been doing is accidental, ya know. What should i dooooooo? It's killing me! Whenever he does it I get all nervous and giddy!

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need a boyfriend


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 8:44 pm

ok well im 15 n its so sad n embarassing but ive never had a boyfriend or done any thing with a guy. in grade 8 i used 2 hang out with other ppl but we kinda grew apart n now i have new friends. so last year (grade 9) my new friends asked how many boyfriends i had and i came clean and said none. i no that u dont like fakes but i lied and i said i had 1 before but we only went out for a week and i dont really count that as having a boyfriend. well my friends arent geeks or anything and 2 make it more embarassing for me they always have a boyfriend and theyve all had sex before. outside of skool i dont have a lot of friends and i dont go to parties because my mom is wierd like that so i cant meet guys that way. also my confidence is really ba...

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I fear I might be gay!


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 7:54 pm

Pls help me, I'm so confused! I'm 17/M, and black. I've always been real popular with the girls and I never questioned my sexuality bfore but now I do cuz I'm very confused about my friend Steven.

He is very different from my other friends who are mostly hiphoppers, he's got spiky, black hair that is long in one side and I think hes gothic - very pale and white, and like real skinny and pretty like a girl. He also has many of his friends wearin' only black.

He is one year younger than me and I guess I've been quite protective towards him all along. I always stood up for him when some of the other black guys wanted to beat him up because he's white and wears gothic-kindda clothes and even eyeliner.

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school dance help


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 6:41 pm

I am going to a high school school dance. I love dances but sometimes it is hard to get guys to ask me to dance. I don't want to ask guys because this dance is at my freinds school, not mine. I don't know any of the guys there. I am not shy when it comes to dancing.. I am a dancer! Anyways, how can I get guys to come up and ask me to dance (grind) with me? What should I do?

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uhm.


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 6:39 pm

okay, i never had a boyfriend before up until last week. he's coming over sometime in the next few days. i think we're watching a movie but anyways. there's a few problems.

1. my dad doesn't like the fact that i'm dating guys and he'll probably say no. how can i convince him to get to know him? my boyfriend is probably one of the sweetest guys in the world..i just don't know how to get my dad too give it a chance.
2. how can i make this night, not so boring? like, i've never been kissed before or anything, and i don't know what he's expecting of me. so we watch a movie, and then what? board games?
3. does everyone feel so insecure when they start dating? or is just me?

please help.

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practice kissing


Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 6:12 pm

what are some ways taht i could practice kissing / making out, without acutally doing it?

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