i know another boy question! two weeks ago i invited aboy to come with me to a party. he came and we danced all night and he gave me a kiss on the chee before he left. for the past tw weeks we have been texting eachother non-stop. he ggoes to my old school so i dont see him a lot. but i cant stop thinking abbout him. i love him. but im scared to tell him this because im aafraid im going to freak him out. but i dont want to keep this texting back and forth thing going on if i dont really know how he feels. what do you think i should do? tell him or not?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? inlove24 answered Monday March 5 2007, 4:23 pm: Ok, im not trying to be mean, but I really dont think you should tell him. Im sure you have never felt this way about a guy before and your feelings for him are strong. I dont believe that you love him. I believe that you like him alot.
You love to spend time with him ect..
Im just telling you what I think, and I think that if you tell him that you love him you are taking a chance at pushing him away. The word "LOVE" scares many guys. So whatever your decision, just be careful with the words you choose. Good luck [ inlove24's advice column | Ask inlove24 A Question ]
Faerie answered Monday March 5 2007, 8:33 am: I'd suggest that you wait...But it also depends on how well you know the dude. If he's someone you met recently, then 'i love you' might scare him off or something.
I think he'll pluck up the courage to tell you that he likes you (soon). Don't think about it too hard - if I were you, i'd wait till he did something about it. If he didn't, I'd think that he is either (a) gay or (b) not interested and never will be. Then I'd move on.
He'll eventually tell you how he feels.
If you want to let him know how you feel first, think about this: are you willing to risk it? If he gets all freaked out and stuff, you're gonna get hurt. If he did like you back all this time, you're gonna be so happy (even if he told you later). Is so much thinking worth something like this?...
This might not be THE best advice ever or even close, but I hope it helps.
lizzielovesyou answered Monday March 5 2007, 8:28 am: i would wait and spend mre time with him before you tell him you love him.some pepole take it very seriously when sxomeone tells them "i love you".
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie [ lizzielovesyou's advice column | Ask lizzielovesyou A Question ]
totallyxrad answered Monday March 5 2007, 7:14 am: tell him. if he feels the same about you then he will tell you. if he doesnt tell you, then i would suggest moving on.
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