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My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 2 months now..and all we have done is makeout, and that is all i am planning on doing with him, i don't believe in sex before marriage. but what kinds of things can we do to keep things interesting when together, or making out or w/e, but no tounge...and no sexual stuff beyond makeing out...????
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Well I'm in the same boat as you. I have the same morals and we have been dating for about 6 months though. When it got about 2 months we started getting a lot more frisky and I told him to back off and he did. So first you should probably discuss this with your boyfriend to make sure that he knows to keep his distance. And I believe that oral sex is considered sex. Also think about this would you like your future husband to be giving oral sex to his girlfriend right now and then when you are married would you like the fact that you have to kiss what has been in another woman's vagina. And it's even weirder to think of him kissing your kids goodnight. So here's what you can do to lighten things up a bit...
1)Tease him every once in a while. Don't look overly sexy but a sophisticated sexy where it doesn't look like your sending him the wrong message. Don't go beyond what is good for your age either. There's nothing like a 12 year old tramp. So tease him into kissing you. Give him little kisses and bite his lip(not too hard) pull it out a little and then kiss him on the cheeck. It will flow and you'll know what to do after that.
2)And hun, no tongue? I'm not trying to be rude in any way but you'll probably start to have to use that tongue. And when you do use it...kiss him really hard one day and the next give him a really cutsie type of kiss (like smiling and having a fun time with it). The next day give him a really sentual kiss. Keep him guessing on which one your gonna give him.
So that's all I have for you. I hope it works out great, but remember to stay true to your values and don't let him take something from you that means a lot to you.
Have fun,
Kelse Kaye
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Keep those rules for yourself. You'll be very valued by men, and also will be able to tell if there in the relationship for the right reasons. When your not married, I think it wouldnt be wrong to do sexual things that arent actual vaginal intercourse. Fingering, hand job, oral, etc. are all i think, alright to do while being un married. There's also another thing called, "dry humping" thats when you have your undergarments on, and pretty much have sex with your clothes on. It's fun. =] You won't be dissapointed.
hope i helped
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I admire your values. I think 2 months is to soon to be giving it up. When you have sex not only do you need to be concerned with pregnancy but also STD's. I wish I had an answer for your question. I can only hope this boy has the same values you do. Boys usually preassure girls for sex. I need you to be firm and stick to your beliefs and don't have sex.
Go to a movie, bowling, the mall, study groups, things like that.
Some STD's can be transmitted skin to skin. The only difference between true love and herpes is that herpes is forever. Chances are you will have a few boyfriends before marriage.
Tounge kissing exposes you to all kinds of bacteria and viruses.
Stay strong.
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