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When a guy does something that you don't like [as in touching boobs or something]
how do you say no [in a nice way] ?
and if you are too busy kissing.. would it be bad if you were to slap their hand?
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this what i do, works a lot!
well, we kiss, & guy wants go in my pants, i nicely take his hands & hold them, OR put them on my face, if oyu know but what i mean .
lots of love,esty
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well before you break the mood and slap him, just kinda move away... put your hands on his and put them where you want them. if he doesn't get the hint, stop - tell him "i dont want your hand there" and then go again. if he doesnt stop, then you know hes a jerk and just end it right there. <3
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You don't have to slap them, just move their hand away. If he's a good guy, he'll take a hint and it shouldn't interrupt the mood.
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Saying no is your right. It needs to be said right away and strongly. Don't worry about it sounding nice. Women and girls put up with too much crap in the mindframe that they don't want to seem rude, when what is being done to them is way worse! It is rude and offensive for a guy to move and touch where you don't want him to, and where he has not obtained permission to do so and HE knows this. Guys just push their luck until it runs out. To avoid the confusion it helps to set limits verbally beforehand. Tell him that you will let him know when and where you would like him to touch you, but kissing is great for now. If he does not respect your own limits over your own body, then he does not respect YOU. If a hand or whatever wanders, you do what you need to in order to stop it immediately...it is your right, your body, and no one has a right to it but you. Next time you kiss him or someone else, you could first hold both his hands in yours and keep a hold of them there until you are comfortable and trust him to stay within the limits you have set. Your body is not something to compromise on. You are never ever ever obligated to do anything you are not 100% ready for and wanting to do. Better to set limits now, then to have regrets later. Most women look back and wish they had done less not more with the guys they were dating, since most turned out to be jerks and losers...I hear it all the time, so be smart and be in control of your body, mind and life.
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it wouldnt neccesarly be bad,but you shoud avoid hittting his hand.if he touches you somewhere that you dont want to be touched then just politly say"please dont it mkes me uncomfortable.if hes a good guy hell understand.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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like pull away and be like, "im sorry, im not ready"
or just pull his hand out from where its gooing and like put it on your hip or something.
hope i helped
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I wouldn't advocate slapping his hand away because guys can react by hitting back (obviously a complete no-no at all costs). I would however just move his hand to somewhere neutral every time he touches you in places you don't want him to. If you are talking and not kissing when he touches you just tell him no firmly and move away. If a guy then persists against your wishes he is not worth dating. Hope this helps.
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well if its in the middle of kissing, just use your hand to guide his away. if he keeps at it, then stop for a second and say "no" and then kiss him again before he can respond.
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