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uhm.
okay, i never had a boyfriend before up until last week. he's coming over sometime in the next few days. i think we're watching a movie but anyways. there's a few problems.
1. my dad doesn't like the fact that i'm dating guys and he'll probably say no. how can i convince him to get to know him? my boyfriend is probably one of the sweetest guys in the world..i just don't know how to get my dad too give it a chance.
2. how can i make this night, not so boring? like, i've never been kissed before or anything, and i don't know what he's expecting of me. so we watch a movie, and then what? board games?
3. does everyone feel so insecure when they start dating? or is just me?
please help.
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1. Boy, do I know this problem! However, the only difference is my dad wants to meet the guys (scary!). I would talk to him alone, and let him know that this guy really is a good guy. You want him to meet the guy, ask him over for dinner and then, he'll be able to meet him. Because I'm sure, if he doesn't know this guy, and he's anything like my dad -- he will never let this guy come over, especially, if you two are going to be alone.
2. Board games are okay, but they aren't suggested by me. You two could just talk and have a conversation, take a walk together, or bring on the board games. :) By the way, you never have to do anything you're uncomfortable with, so if this guy trys something he shouldn't -- show him the door.
3. No, you're not alone. Many feel insecure, especially, with their first boyfriend. I did at first, and as I got more comfortable with the guy everything was just fine. So really, you have nothing to worry about. Just don't let those insecurities get in the way, of your relationship.
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Thats what i felt lik a few months ago! I got my first real boyfriend and my dad really didnt like me dating him. But, at the time i had no cell so he had to call my house and my dad would answer. He was very polite and made general conversation such as, how are you? and then kindly asked to speak with me. So have him try that and it may win your dad over.
Don't be in a rush to kiss him. After you watch the movie, put on some music and just hang out like you would do with your friends, but like different. You guys will start to talk and im sure you'll have a good time. If you're still insecure about it. For the first couple of times ask your friends(boys and girls) to come over, and it will weaken the stress. But, after a while you two will be totally comftorable with eachother.
Of course everyone feels insecure, it mite be a tad awkward at first, as it is for a lot of people, but don't worry time will pass and you guys will be totally comftorable with eachother.
Hope that Helped!!
-dee
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1. okay well if your dad doesnt like that prove to him your mature enough to deal with a boyfriend and my suggestion is have him meet your dad for like dinner at your house or something like that and it will be nervewacking but if hes as sweet as you say your dad will see it too! =]
2. well first off DONT feel pressured to kiss him if you want to go for it if not then dont rush it watch a movie and just chill it wont be boring if u reallyyy like eachother then just the fact that your together will make it fun.
3. sometimes but dont feel insecure he obviously likes you if hes dating you so enjoy it and just be happy with him and most of all DONT WORRY and BE HAPPY! =]
-ash
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