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im not sure what to day
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 5:56 pm
19 f
ok so i went on a date with this really nice guy the other night. weve been talking to each other and everything has just really clicked. Well i wound up spending the night at his house. We didnt do anything really just made out and stuff. I then slept in the guestroom. WEll my bestfriend wasnt happy about it. She had already told me that it was still to soon to do that. While i agree with where she was coming from in regards to that i also wanted to make my own decisions on this. I chose to spend the night and it was one of the best night of my life. I just want to know what i can say to her that will tell her i really respect your opinion but at the same time you cant be mad at me for what my decision is. I value our friendshi...
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My best freinds bf
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 9:50 am
ok. i have a friend and all the boys think she is sooo hot and cute ect. she stole my crush that i had on since the 3rd. gr. and on. whenever i am around with her i get really mad and frustratied. what do i do? and don't think she is a bad friend or anything.. she is so nice and sweet.
P.S.-i am in 5th grade, if that helps
P.S.S- please don't tell me "oh. just tell her your real feelings":i would be teased the rest of my life.
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Rejection
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 9:01 am
Ok, I'm 17/f and I have a problem with this guy. Last summer I got introduced to him through mutual friends. We hung out ONCE for a few hours the day before I went to San Diego on vacation. We just went to the park and then to hang out at a fast food place where the guy works. Well, I went on vacation and long story short, he told me he was IN LOVE with me and asked me out. I wasn't attracted to this guy in the slightest and the "love" thing weirded me out. So, I NICELY turned him down.
I didn't talk to him again until the next school year (this year) and he barely spoke to me. I was fine with that because I didn't even know him. Well, I just recently started talking to him online and everything is fine. He complim...
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Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 8:30 am
16/f been with my boyfriend for 10 months. and i messed up realll bad.. don't have time to get into details, but i always have this major attitude and i said something snotty that i really shouldn't have.. i'm an ass. i'm so freaking sorry and i don't know what to do to make it up to him. i am so lost and i'm a mess and i am defnintely wrong here so don't say anything about that.. i'm a complete idiot with the best boyfriend in the whole entire world, and everyone notices. and i always take him for granted.. what the heck should i doo!?? i need something fast, thanks ♥
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unapproachable?
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 12:46 am
My aunt told me that the reason why guys never seem interested in me is not because I'm unattractive or anything, but because I'm "completely unapproachable" (even though I'm not aware of it) and people don't want to be around me because they're afraid that I'll make fun of them........even though I've never made fun of anyone before.
How can I be more "approachable"? Smile more, stop listening to my iPod in public, what should I do to make myself seem more open?
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soo annoying
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 12:00 am
ahh so i dont know what to do. theres this [white] guy who recently got transferred to my school from a rather, mind you, 'ghetto' school in another county. hes like one of them skater guys but talks like a gangster kinda and is the total quiet but hard bad boy, but is a sweetheart when you talk to him.. kinda like eminems character in 8 mile. i dont know why, but recently ive become super attracted to guys like that. i guess its because he reminds me of my cousins ex, but i never liked my cousins ex like that?? so i dont know. anyway, ive talked to him once for like 5 minutes, so really i dont him at all, but im falling for him just because of his "type". and i have a boyfriend that im crazy about and no i dont wanna leave him. i...
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FRIEND ZONE!!!
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 11:23 pm
okay i like this guy and he is my ex's bestfriend
me and my ex broke up LAST YEAR and now he has a new gf who he has been dating for like 8 months
and now i like his bestfriend.... and me and his bestfriend talk on the phone like for 55mins to an hour.. but i call him most the time.. b.c he's the shy type.. but yah.. and when Dj (my ex's bestfriend) was going out with Kayla he never called her..and when she called him he talked to her for like 10 mins tops.. not even that.. most the time.. and me and him can talk about anything .. its just like when we talk we end up talking about girls he think is hot.. and there asses so I KNOW im in the FRIEND ZONE!! and my quesiton is how do i get out?..what can do besides flirtingg..?
btw.. im kinda scared of rejection.
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he said i love you..i said idk
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 10:55 pm
alright so theres this guy and we are sort of friends with benifits i guess you could say we've made out a few times, and we kiss and hold hands alot, but he hasent asked me out yet, so today in english that he loved me and i just kind of smiled and strangly it made me really sad because i promised myself i wouldnt say i love you to him unless i was forsure i really did, because then i thought it would mean alot more to both of us..so it sort of pissed me off that he was probally lying, so then he was like do you love me back?? and i was like uhm idk, i really like you but im not sure if im ready to say "love" yet and then the rest of the day i was really sad for some reason like i felt like balling my eyes out, im really confused...
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question for guys.
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 10:51 pm
alright so today my boyfriend and i were in english and i was kind of mad at him because he's been flirting with other girls so yea hes trying to talk to me and im kind of ignoring him and talking to other people and he kept asking me what was wrong and i was like uhh nothing? im fine.. in kind of a sad voice..then today when we were walking over to track practice together he's like wow today when you were mad at me..your ussually like a 10-10 but when your pissed at me its so hot you like a 20..so im kind of confused and i really dont get why this would be "hot" to him...please explain?
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should i hook up with him
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 10:49 pm
tomorrow night is this carazzyyy dance. everyone goes crazy when they are there you are supposed to get way crazy and have the time of your life. i really like this one kid(joe) alot. this other kid(dan). well dan is going to the dance tm. he really wants to hook up with me but the only reason why i would is cause i like to hook up with people and i would just do it for fun. i have NO feelings for dan though and i really don't want joe to find out. should i hook up with him or with other guys? or not at all?
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commitment issues
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 10:46 pm
i can not figure this out! i really like this guy let call him bob. well everytime i see him my heart pounds against my ribs like crazy i get butterflys everytime i think of him it's crazy! but then he asked my friend if i would go out with him and she said i dont know. then i got that feeling... like the feeling that your heart sank like when you really don't want to do something. i think i am afriad of commitment and having a boyfriend. i have never had a serious one. i really like to have fun but i really like bob! how can i get over these dumb commitment issues?
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i'm so embarrassed...
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 8:19 pm
last night... me, 3 of my friends, and my crush all went to my friend lacy's house. while we were there, we were just doing stupid stuff, and then i got up on a table and started baton twirling. i was doing really good, then i hit myself in the head fell off the table. it was so embarrassing. he just like, looked at me. then, to make up for what i had done.. i tried to be funny. so i pantsed my friend and she teared up. he just looked at me again. ugh! finally, the girls did a little dance routine to "thriller"... it was fun and i did really good, then i went to the bathroom when we were done and saw that i had a huge black smudge on my face and my hair was sticking up.. bad.. now i know why they are laughing. what should i say to...
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my boyfriend is somewhat controlling.
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 7:51 pm
okay, i just realized that my boyfriend can be really controlling at points.
like earlier today, i was on the phone with him and i was on myspace too, and he asked me if i was on myspace and i told him i was and he got mad because i have a bone disease in my wrist and so it like makes it worse when i type and so he got mad and he was like you didnt tell me that you were gonna get on the computer. and he does that constantly.
and he sometimes treats me like his dog or pet or something.
like at church if i just stand there and dont follow him, he'll like yell at me and say something like get your butt over here! or why aren't u coming with me? and he'll say it with an attitude and it seems like hes the one on his period.<...
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my controlling boyfriend.
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 7:50 pm
okay, i just realized that my boyfriend can be really controlling at points.
like earlier today, i was on the phone with him and i was on myspace too, and he asked me if i was on myspace and i told him i was and he got mad because i have a bone disease in my wrist and so it like makes it worse when i type and so he got mad and he was like you didnt tell me that you were gonna get on the computer. and he does that constantly.
and he sometimes treats me like his dog or pet or something.
like at church if i just stand there and dont follow him, he'll like yell at me and say something like get your butt over here! or why aren't u coming with me? and he'll say it with an attitude and it seems like hes the one...
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Mixed Messages
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 7:20 pm
I really like this guy, and I talk to him a lot. He sometimes can act weird over the computer. For example, he sometimes IMs me first, but sometimes he doesn't. When we talk, he can sometimes be a bit mean, like the other day, I said, "Yeah I just had to get a shot at the doctor's." And he said, "Do I really care?" He says things like that a lot, but I think that just may be his sense of humor.
Then, in the same conversation, he will write, "<3" to me. Also today, I told him I missed him, and he said, "I missed you too." Sometimes there are awkward pauses in our conversation, and I'm usually the one leading the conversations. He doesn't ask me much about myself, but if I ask him some...
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Spain Romance
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 6:46 pm
I went to Spain for 9 days with my school and 3 other high schools around the country. The first day i started talking to a cute guy but i have been dating the same guy at home for over a year. While i was in spain me and the guy talked alot but never got any farther than a kiss on the cheek. We discussed alot about relationships and our futures. we live on opposite sides of the countries but on the last day he told me he really likes me and if he could he would come see me before he goes to college. I told him i liked him but we both still knew i had a guy at home. I am asking if its ok for me to like him because we automatically clicked and i dont want to hurt my boyfriend.
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Dating- I have to wait till i'm 16!!!
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 6:23 pm
I'm 13/f and i have a bf. i really want to go on a date with him, and my parents wont let me!!
The only way i can go on a date with my bf is if my parents come too. That would be soooo embarrasing!! I dont get it, like i do everything i'm told- i have good grades, keep my room clean, have good friends, etc. and i have tried telling them that stuff but they said that doesn't matter because i'm just not old enough. We tried to double date with my best friend this weekend, but we couldn't. :( I feel really bad because he wants to go places besides skewl with me, but i cant!! Does anyone have suggestions on how to get them to let me go?
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i am stuck between 2 men
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 5:57 pm
hi i am a 24 years old female, i have been with my current partner for 3 and a half years, i have a baby girl with him but, i am so miserable. i have met someone else on a chatroom whom i have spoke to many times and it is cause of this i have realised that i am trapped in my current relationship. i am scared to leave him as i dont want to hurt his feelings and fear i wouldnt be able to manage without him over the past 3 and a half years he has totally brain washed me to thinking this, he puts me down all the time and bullies me to make me feel worthless. i dont no what to do please can some one help me
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flirty
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 4:37 pm
I like a guy a year older than me, and I want him to like me back and know that I like him without being like obnoxious or telling him. How can I flirt with him. What things could I say??
Thanks
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making out
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 4:35 pm
I haven't made out before but I think that I will soon with my boyfriend. So this is exactly wht I need,
1) when you made out for the first time was it awquward, did you mess up
2)Exactly how should a girl make out with a guy (I don't want to mess up)
3) tips for making out
4) where should arms go so its not awquward
5) anything else helpful
thanks
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