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16/f been with my boyfriend for 10 months. and i messed up realll bad.. don't have time to get into details, but i always have this major attitude and i said something snotty that i really shouldn't have.. i'm an ass. i'm so freaking sorry and i don't know what to do to make it up to him. i am so lost and i'm a mess and i am defnintely wrong here so don't say anything about that.. i'm a complete idiot with the best boyfriend in the whole entire world, and everyone notices. and i always take him for granted.. what the heck should i doo!?? i need something fast, thanks ♥
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Sometimes the best thing to do after making a sincere and complete apology, which means taking credit for your part of the wrongdoing, is to wait. We don't like to wait, because it does not give us instantaneous gratification and appreciation for doing what we think was the right thing. We hope that the other person receives our apology and wants to immediately start the making up process. However, they don't owe us this and we may never get it. Do the right thing and then have the dignity to keep doing it...by allowing the other person the time and space they require to process the information, and create their own new opinions. He deserves to know your heart, but he also deserves to have his heart concealed from you until he is ready. Good luck!
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Hey!
Well I like the other persons answer, you should do a quick email or call though. Tell him that you love and you take him for granted and you wish you could take back everything and you want to show the entire world how much you love him and that you are going to make it up to him. Tell him you're an ass and you;re freaking sorry and you dont know what to do to make it up to him. Tell him you're an idiot and hes te best boyfriend in the entire world. (I copied all of that out of your question btw :P). Tell him all of that stuff and more, that will give him the jist of it, then you need to sit down and plan a day. From early in the morning, making him breakfast to a walk on the beach at sunset, make it a day for him, to show him how much you love him and that you care so much about him that you are willing to do anything for him.
I think that should answer your question, let me know if you need any ideas for how to show him you care, I hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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if i were you i would send him an email or note apologizing sincerely and showing how much you care about him. if you try to talk to him and say you're sorry you might end up saying something snotty again if you guys get in an argument, so go with something written, it will show you really care enough to take the time to do that.
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