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Mixed Messages
I really like this guy, and I talk to him a lot. He sometimes can act weird over the computer. For example, he sometimes IMs me first, but sometimes he doesn't. When we talk, he can sometimes be a bit mean, like the other day, I said, "Yeah I just had to get a shot at the doctor's." And he said, "Do I really care?" He says things like that a lot, but I think that just may be his sense of humor.
Then, in the same conversation, he will write, "<3" to me. Also today, I told him I missed him, and he said, "I missed you too." Sometimes there are awkward pauses in our conversation, and I'm usually the one leading the conversations. He doesn't ask me much about myself, but if I ask him something, then he will talk a lot. Sometimes when I get bored, I say that I have to go. Then he says, "You're leaving me?!" or "No! Don't go!" And he's also always concerned about how long I can stay to talk. He'll ask, "How long can you stay tonight?" or he'll say, "I can stay late tonight." (on the computer.)
Also he has a Myspace and we are both each others
number three on our top 8s. I'm pretty confused because sometimes he seems interested and sometimes not. Do you think that he just gets bored in our conversations? Should I leave sooner? Do you think he likes me? Can anyone analyze this?
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He probably thinks of you as either a good friend, or more but it's hard to tell since he's sending mixed signals. You should probably talk to him about this yourself since he's the only one who can answer you.
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Well I think that thats the way guys are sometimes. He probably thinks of you as a very good friend, unless hes really shy, but thats how guys act they are really confusing. This guy just likes to play a lot I dont think its nothing serious, if he really liked you then let him do his move.
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Personally, I think you might be reading too much into this. Guy don't show thier true feelings a lot of the time. It's hard for them unless you force it out of them. This is what I think is happened when your trying to sign out and leave the computer or whatever. Your forcing him to show that he wants you around. So.. he does. Ya get what I mean?
I am having this same issue with my boyfriend. He tells me he is in love with me yet, sometimes he will just type "love ya" instead of "I love you" or.. completely not say it at all. But, what you have to realize is that guys will be guys and it's not worth harping on the little things. I did that in my last relationship and destroyed it. To be quite honest.
So.. now... to my adive. I think you should relax and not worry about it so much. But, stop allowing him to give you mized signals. Put him in situations where he has to tell you how he feels.
What do I mean by this? Well...
I decided not to tell my boyfriend that I love him, unless he says it to me, for a while. I want him to get how important it is to me to know that and that I want him to show it better.
You could do something similar that applies to your situation better. Lol.
But, honestly... don't read too much into it. I am sure he cares about you and like you a lot. Guys are just weird at times. Its just how they are. They don't show too much emotion. Lol.
Best of luck, babe. Hope I helped! <3
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