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i am stuck between 2 men
hi i am a 24 years old female, i have been with my current partner for 3 and a half years, i have a baby girl with him but, i am so miserable. i have met someone else on a chatroom whom i have spoke to many times and it is cause of this i have realised that i am trapped in my current relationship. i am scared to leave him as i dont want to hurt his feelings and fear i wouldnt be able to manage without him over the past 3 and a half years he has totally brain washed me to thinking this, he puts me down all the time and bullies me to make me feel worthless. i dont no what to do please can some one help me
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My sister was in this same predicament for a year or so. She finally got the courage up to leave him but even after she always felt discouraged. But she also felt free and not worthless to the world. She started dating again soon after and has been happy ever since. infact her baby just turned 1 in march and the dad left and got married to the first girl could find and get knocked up. What i am trying to say is you will be alot happier with out him. especially if he is making you miserable.
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If this guy tears you down piece by piece, why the hell would you stay with him? It'd be smart to stay for the sake of your baby, but seriously, do what is gonna make you happy in the long run. Why be scared to hurt his feelings? All he ever does is hurt yours, so do it right back & show him how the hell it feels. Break up with him, and move on with life. Nobody deserves to be with an ignorant, jerky asshole.
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Well in this case, you and him should sit down and talk things over, but if he doesnt understand then sweety you just have to move on. I know its difficult, but if your not happy with him then your going to be miserable the rest of your life. I suggest you pray for him.
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ditch the loser it might hurt at first but its the best thing for you and the baby you arn't marryed and if he makes you feel so horriable then he is not worth it. But next man choose carfully
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