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soo annoying
ahh so i dont know what to do. theres this [white] guy who recently got transferred to my school from a rather, mind you, 'ghetto' school in another county. hes like one of them skater guys but talks like a gangster kinda and is the total quiet but hard bad boy, but is a sweetheart when you talk to him.. kinda like eminems character in 8 mile. i dont know why, but recently ive become super attracted to guys like that. i guess its because he reminds me of my cousins ex, but i never liked my cousins ex like that?? so i dont know. anyway, ive talked to him once for like 5 minutes, so really i dont him at all, but im falling for him just because of his "type". and i have a boyfriend that im crazy about and no i dont wanna leave him. i just gotta snap myself out of likin this other guy, but i dont know how.. ahh annoying right? any help is appreciated! oh and hes in my class & lunch soo yeah kinda hard to avoid him because im obviously aware of his presence..
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You don't actually like him, I just think you like his style. There probably isn't a way to stop liking him, but just remember you've got a boyfriend & it should snap you back into reality.
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I have the same creepy problem... What I do is that whenevr I see myself thinkin of this other guy... I immediately call up my boyfriend and talk to him to remind myself that there just CANNOT be a better guy than my baby... And now I've kinda got over that other guy and even made him my friend. The trick is to not make such a big deal about it and just be normal in front of the guy. Hang out with your bf mnore often to stop thinkin about this and even hang out with ur bf in front of that other guy... This way, even if the skater boy likes YOU he will get it that you love your bf alot and his feelings moight just stop...
Best of Luck Sweetie...
xxxxx DaRkSiDe89 xxxxx
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hey, well maybe you are attracted to this guy. maybe you like him a tiny bit and its not just because of his type. if that is the case and your crazy about your boyfriend, picture your life without your boyfriend. if you just cant seem to picture life without him or picture it misserable, you know your deeply in love. if you and that skater guy kind of talk flirty, end it now. explain to him that you do have a boyfriend and you would like to stay faithful to him. yes, this might make the skater guy back off a bit and you might not talk to him as friends as much, but its better off this way. good luck.
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