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Dating- I have to wait till i'm 16!!!
I'm 13/f and i have a bf. i really want to go on a date with him, and my parents wont let me!!
The only way i can go on a date with my bf is if my parents come too. That would be soooo embarrasing!! I dont get it, like i do everything i'm told- i have good grades, keep my room clean, have good friends, etc. and i have tried telling them that stuff but they said that doesn't matter because i'm just not old enough. We tried to double date with my best friend this weekend, but we couldn't. :( I feel really bad because he wants to go places besides skewl with me, but i cant!! Does anyone have suggestions on how to get them to let me go?
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I like the answer the very first person gave. It was a great idea, I think you should do that, invite him to be around your parents and let them get to know him. Yeah its boreing, but once you get to know him and they know hes a good guy, you can have him over and possibly go to his place. Then that will lead to going out to dinner or a movie once with friends. As your parents warm up to him then you will be aloud to do more fun things with him. Yeah its embarrassing, but theres two choices here, no dating, or dating with your parents.
Then try what that other person said and be responsible. Try and take on other responsibilties around the home, and do what youre told when you are told, or before you're told. Then calmly talk to your parents, ask them why you arent aloud to date and try and fix whatever they give as a response, if there is no response, other than you're not sixteen, then its an unfair situation and its injust, but when you get older you wont do it to your kids right?
I know this answer was pretty much all of them mixed together, but I think I had a bit of my own advice here, and if you don't agree, I'm sorry :(. I really do hope I helpped though. Love ya,
Angie91
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Do what my lil sis did when she needed to date. Convince one parent first saying i will not let him touch me, if you guys really trust me then let me go. then ask them When you were younger did your parents go on a date with you and your bf? Wait what the heck you have a bf but can't date? Thats a very dumb thing. Oh well. Just do what i said and it worked wonders for my sis. hehe
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There is a reason that parents don't let 13 year old girls ou ton dates, but... try talking to your parents. Ask them what you can do to show them that you are mature enough to date and that you can handle it. Maybe they will reconsider.
Honestly, babe, I see thier point though. Really, noone is mature enough until like 17 or 18 (in my opinion) to hold a mature relationship and really be "committed" to someone else. I did the same thing when I was 13. I thought I wanted to have a bf and commit myself. Haha. There is still so much more to learn about life at that age, however. Hell, I am 21 and feel like I just now can give a relationship what it truly deserves. I never thought that before. I wasn't mature enough before. There are plenty more things to do at 13 than date guys. Haha.
However, like I said, try talking to your parents. Thats really all you can do. And, show them you can be responsible.
Personally, however, your still young. Live life. Have fun! Hang out with friends. Don't waste it trying to date guys. Your time will come when your ready. Save yourself the heartach as long as you can. Lol.
Best of luck, hun. Hope you understand my advice! Loves! <3
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Ask your parents why dont get me wrong or anything but your not old enough isnt really an excuse just ask them why you want reasons if there good then yeh just go with your parents just tell them if use can sit seperatly but near if you get me im sure they would your lucky your even aloud to have a bf lols =]
tC xoxo
GoodLuckk
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If your parents dont think your old enough then you have to prove to them that you are old enough by doing something that will make them feel that way. If you keep asking them they wont let you go. You have to show them.
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Go on a couple dates with your parents. Do fun things, like bowling or just do dinner or something. Maybe you can invite your friend and her boyfriend so it won't be that boring. Act appropriately around your boyfriend, and maybe they'll let you go on a date with just your boyfriend. If not, just wait. Don't push your parents, they make these rules for a reason.
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