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i straighten my hair almost everyday and i have a lot of split/dead ends.. what could i put in my hair before i straighten it so the heat dosnt distroy it even more?
thankss =] (link)
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First of all never straighten your hair while wet! It completely destroys your hair! Do not straighten your hair every single day find other ways, go to the store and buy good recovering hair products.
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I'm 13/f and i have a bf. i really want to go on a date with him, and my parents wont let me!!
The only way i can go on a date with my bf is if my parents come too. That would be soooo embarrasing!! I dont get it, like i do everything i'm told- i have good grades, keep my room clean, have good friends, etc. and i have tried telling them that stuff but they said that doesn't matter because i'm just not old enough. We tried to double date with my best friend this weekend, but we couldn't. :( I feel really bad because he wants to go places besides skewl with me, but i cant!! Does anyone have suggestions on how to get them to let me go? (link)
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Do what my lil sis did when she needed to date. Convince one parent first saying i will not let him touch me, if you guys really trust me then let me go. then ask them When you were younger did your parents go on a date with you and your bf? Wait what the heck you have a bf but can't date? Thats a very dumb thing. Oh well. Just do what i said and it worked wonders for my sis. hehe
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someone broke into my house a while back and took our car 3 times and now im nervious like all the time and i think he will do i again im 17 and i know its weird but im nervios any advice would be great (link)
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Ok someone broke into our car and stole the radio all i have to say is
1. Get an alarm for your Car
2.Get an Alarm for your House
3.Get security cameras make sure they can be hidden.
4. Lock your doors get extra locks if you have to. or just get a new lock.
5. STAY AWAY from your windows or anything else he could possibly get in through.
6. Have a phone with you at ALL times DON'T be afraid to call the cops.
7. Make sure you have SOME KIND of weapon at your house just in case he is armed and not saying he is but he can be and its always good to be prepared
8. If someone is at your door knocking and you have NO CLUE who it is and he looks a little suspiscous and hes kinda standing there for a long time CALL THE COPS
9. If you still feel uncomfortable in your home have someone stay with you for awhile and help you with things.
10. Stay safe and watch the people at your doors and peeking into your windows it might be your guy.
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I got my period, but I havent told my mom. Im shy and its weird talking to her. How should I tell her? (link)
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Sooner the better if you won't tell her she might suspect something is wrong with your body and consult with your doctor why you haven't gotten your period. First day i got my period i woke up and got it and i yelled across the room "MOM I GOT MY PERIOD GO GET ME A TAMPON!!" i was calm like it happened before so my mother understood.
Everyone gets their period tell your mother that it was embarassing telling her you got your period at first when i was 11 i was afraid to go buy tampons then in like 2 months i would walk in grab the tampons and buy them there is nothing strange or weird about it.
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This is going to be long or no one is going to understand my situation.
Basically I'm 16 & Female: I had this perfect boyfriend (or so it seemed) we dated constant, no breakups, for 17 months. He, too, was 16. We planned so much, we were even getting engaged, it was perfect. Near January of this year, things started getting a little rocky between him & I. See we go to different schools so we never really got to see eachother that often. We planned to meet eachother at the bowling alley, and that night we got in a fight. The fight wasn't really over anything big, he just got mad at me over something & hurt my arm. But I told him that he had anger problems & needed to resolve them. So basically, for the next 3 days he ignored me. He ignored my calls, my texts, my messages, my emails, & he never called me back, returned anything. Then I had gotten on the computer that day & he broke up with me. I was not only mad that it was through the computer, but I was furious because of everything he threw away. A week down the road, he comes back to me & asks for this thing he called "break-up sex" I knew it would have been a mistake for me to have done it, but I wanted him back & I wanted that feeling back. So I agreed to it. Later on, he tells me that he's "talking" to someone & doesn't want to ruin things with her, so he doesn't want to have this "sex." I was hurt. Basically because I still wanted him back. Friday night, I went to the basketball game at his school to meet up with a couple of my friends, and he was there. He wasn't with anyone like he told me he would have been. So he texts me & asks me to meet him outside. We ended up having sex in the backseat of his car. I don't really regret it, but last night he told me that he never would ever get back together with me & that friday night was an accident. What is your all's opinion on this situation? (link)
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I'm so sorry hunny your not gonna like this answer but i have to say it forget him and move on yes it will be difficult but he is USING you something must have hit his brain and decided it was over. Otherwise talk to him and try to work it out. You never know when a guy is talking bull**** so becareful and please understand your having sex at 16!
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has anybody used any of th v.s's hair care or makeup products...if so how satisfied were you. (link)
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Their Perfume, lipgloss,and lotions are AMAZING muh dear :]] im wearing the lipgloss right now and the perfume. Yes i'm very very very happy about their products i HIGHLY ADVISE you to get their stuff
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okay, so my gf and i are pretty much getting married, we already agreed to it, however for the last few months, we have been talking about having sex.. but there is so many things that say we shouldnt, but none of them seem to be against us, such as diseases; i dont have any, she doesnt have any, future marriage; well, if we're the people getting married wouldnt it bring us closer? and im aware of pregnancy, but we really have no idea what to do... we have been going back and fourth for a while, and i really dont want to tear this relationship down if we do end up having sex...so please anyone who can give me a streight up answer, you will be more than helpful! thanks!! (link)
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Ok make sure you and her are both ready and since your NOT married YET i suggest using a condom if you don't want a kid quite yet. Don't make her force you to have sex or don't force her to have sex. When your both ready you may be hesitant but you will understand it later it proabably will not break up your realationship hope i helped you and good luck i suppose
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i loveeee the pic from your profile
wherre where where did you find it? (link)
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Oh go to photobucket and hit the browse and type in lips and this and another one will pop up I hope that helped ya babe!
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So lyke omg there's this boi.
Just kidding. Kind of.
There's this guy, one of my best friends. His name is Matt. We're pretty close. Anyway, I'm starting to develop serious feelings for him. We usually get to our French class early, and so he'll walk around the room hugging me or he'll pull me up out of my seat to do the tango. He doesn't really do that to any of my other friends, but my personality is pretty different from my other friends. I'm more spontaneous. Everytime he touches me (a few times per day), my heart flutters, and I get really happy.
The thing is that he thinks of my as more of a little sister, I think. Today, he wrote me a note asking me if I liked someone named Donny (shut up, it was the first name I could think of) because he saw us talking and thought that we were totally like in love or something. Anyway, he misread us. I'm pretty flirtatious in general. He was warning me because this kid has a bit of a reputation and he didn't want me to get hurt.
On MySpace, I took a Top 8 survey, and it asked if I had ever slept in the same bed as number 3 (Matt). I said no, because we haven't, and he messaged me with, "What are you talking about? We sleep in the same bed all the time!!" I think he was just being him, but should I read more into this?
Anyway, I'm wondering if you think that he'll ever like me as more than a little sister/friend, and if you think I should be a little more flirtatious, or if you think he's just an amazing friend.
I love him a lot, it's just a matter of whether it's going to go anywhere. Like, I respect him soo much and he respects me a lot, too, and I know that we'll always keep in touch, but I want to marry this guy.
Sounds kind of desperate, huh? (link)
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I HAD to answer this one i about cried when i read it this is like melt your heart!! Aww sweetie! Be open with him! He will appreciate it. You and "Donny" he was prolly really jealous and wanted to make sure you didn't like him because he might secretly like you. Please i need to know more about this please rate this give a comment about your myspace or anything i can contact you on because i wanna know what happens!!
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what do u do when your friends tell you that you have changed alot ever since u got with your boyfriend??
the other day my sister told me that i've been alot more bitchier ever since i got with my boyfriend kyle which was almost a month ago.
and then my best friend just told me that everyone has noticed it.
she said that i act like im better than everyone and im alot more bitchier and everything.
i just dont know what i am supose to do about that. should i break up with my boyfriend or just ignore everyone else?? (link)
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HOLY HELL omg this is exactly whats going on with my friend. Alright yes you proably act like a bitch just make time for your friends and boyfriend just remember put your FRIENDS BEFORE boyfriends because boyfriends will leave but friends stay forever and yes you will get people who will hate you because i hate my friend who did the same thing, just remember friends will love you more then him.
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I am Catholic. I made my confirmation last year. Except the thing is.. i wasnt really ready. i didnt know god as much as i do now. I am such a better Christian now. I feel connected to him now. I pray every night and follow god as much as i possibly could. I dont cuss or drink or smoke or have sex..or do bad stuff. I kind of picked a confirmation saint name without thinking. It doesnt really relate to me, or hve much meaning to me. of course i researched it, and i thought it was really cool what she did.
But sometimes i think some things we as Catholics do, are kind of pointless. i know god would love me just as much if i wasnt confirmed. baptists dont get confirmed. and i actually dont remember my confirmation as being one of those heart touching special moments.
Am i wrong for feeling this way?
I just want to follow god w/out having to do these things that i find pointless...
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No its fine to feel this way i think this too (im catholic also) I think that things we do in church is quite pointless i mean i love god with all my heart but im not the kind that will be praying everyday and not curse and stuff i mean its not like hes going to send you to hell and yes i did say HELL. My confirmation wasn't touching to me either i mean i drank their nasty wine and pretty much spit it back up right then and there i made an awful face though. Don't worry your good and God bless ya even though i rarely ever say that!
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Im kelly 14/f.I found out that i was bi-sexual about 3 months ago.I really don't want to be bi but i just can't help it.I want to know if i should tell my mom i am or just keep it to myself till im older just to be sure im bi? (link)
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Your young your prolly going through a phase ok wait like 2 more months or 1 month around that time or 3 months to be extra sure and see if you still like girls if this becomes an inssue just tell your mother if it concerns you but I guessing she will be upset and understanding. Your Parents will love you no matter what you are like an alien or bi or lez or gay or crazy they will love you.
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ok im not sure wat to do. my hair is naturally curly but since i straighte it so much its just wavy now. i really want to cut my hair! cause its all dead at the ends. but i dont juss want a trim. i want to kno if i should cut my hair a little bit past my shoulder with short layers. or if you have any suggestions on how i should cut it. i would be straighting my hair almost everyday. and i would be deep conditioning it frequently. if u hav myspace...go see me! http://www.myspace.com/urfacelookslikepoo123 thanks! (link)
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I would have it at shoulder length with a trim face frame with layers not that would be really cute i did that to my lil sisters hair and it came out fabulous and sometimes curl your hair it would be wayyyy cute
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alright im fifteen yers old and i had over 900 friends on myspace till today when it was hacked. The only one who knew my password was austin my best friend! would he do something like this? He said he would never, and I belive him but I have a doubt too. Idk whoever hacked it only left me with 12 friends im pissed (link)
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It might be him, otherwise someone knows how to hack your myspace and it must be someone who is mad at you or likes playing tricks. Look him straight in the eye and make sure he tells you the truth while he is looking in your eyes. But have other resorces too it might not be him and it might ruin your friendship with him
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Heyy, if anyone can help me with this that'd be great: Myspace has always worked fine on my computer until recently. My myspace hasn't been letting me sign on. Actually, myspace isnt even showing up on my computer. Whenever i try to go on it it says page cannot be displayed. It's been doing this for about four or five days now. So, I tried to sign into my account on my friends computer. Now myspace isn't working on her computer. In other words, any time someone trys to sign into my username on my account on myspace on their computer, myspace will no longer work on their computer at all either. Does this mean my account has been hacked or what?? and is there anything i can do about it. Thanks alot. (link)
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No your computer or myspace is not hacked This is on my computer too for some reason i cannot figure it out and im a computer whiz but this is confusing. Try it on another computer i will tell you as soon as i figure this out.
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k well this will prob be long, sorry haha
14/f 9th grade
alright so last year i started talking to this boy, his name is pedro. pedro is a really nice guy, and very attractive, though alot of people discredit him for it because he is def(sp?). continuing on, so we began talking at the beginning of the year, and talked all year long, we both liked eachother and we both knew it but we dated other people but still "talked" so in the summer we went out. for like a month. i broke things off because i did not see him once in that month we went out and barley talked to him, also because he blew me off 3 times. so i was like, why am i wasting my time? ok so we still remained friends, we'd fight sometimes but we were still friends. then one night online(in like september after school had started), we got in a really big argument because he was like "your annoying and you bother me" and i was like..wtf is your problem. and it escalated into this big fight. and he told me that he loved me, but he didn't want to, and he said he didn't want to talk to me anymore. and then at the end of our fight/conversation he denied saying any of it. but i didn't talk to him at all anymore. that was the end of our friendship. then in around december we started talking again because we both play basketball for the school and he would ask me out it but i wouldn't talk to him unless he said something to me because i was mad as hell because like he was as close to love as i've ever been and i still had/have feelings for him and he said all that stuff. then like we kept talking and got less mad. and then one day he was like texting me and he goes "i want to make out with you" "i want you" "i miss you" "i love you" and at one point i asked what he was doing and he said "thinking about you" so like i thought he liked me again. but then like the next day he acted like he never said anything and like i was kinda bumed but whatever. so then before a game he goes "good luck at your game love you" so like he's confusing my brain. because he called me once the other day. and he will text me randomly and be like whats up. but if i text him he like barely ever answers me and if he does it takes him forever. so like i guess what my question is, does he like me again. and like should i keep talking to him and stuff like i don't know i still have feelings for me and that one night i was the happiest i've ever been so i don't know.. (link)
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This kid is messing with your brain!!! He says he likes you but he doesn't so he's prolly gonna break your heart if he does try and go out with you or he will deny all the messages and call you crazy and make you go crazy. screw him you must be a beautiful girl just be yourself maybe someone else will love you better then that crazy guy says that he does
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Our first date was tonight---me and this girl...I think i'm in love...is that possible or irrational? (link)
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Well take it slow. She might not love you yet but she might. It may be love at first sight for you but maybe not her don't go crazy on her just take stuff slow.
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