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So lyke omg there's this boi.
Just kidding. Kind of.
There's this guy, one of my best friends. His name is Matt. We're pretty close. Anyway, I'm starting to develop serious feelings for him. We usually get to our French class early, and so he'll walk around the room hugging me or he'll pull me up out of my seat to do the tango. He doesn't really do that to any of my other friends, but my personality is pretty different from my other friends. I'm more spontaneous. Everytime he touches me (a few times per day), my heart flutters, and I get really happy.
The thing is that he thinks of my as more of a little sister, I think. Today, he wrote me a note asking me if I liked someone named Donny (shut up, it was the first name I could think of) because he saw us talking and thought that we were totally like in love or something. Anyway, he misread us. I'm pretty flirtatious in general. He was warning me because this kid has a bit of a reputation and he didn't want me to get hurt.
On MySpace, I took a Top 8 survey, and it asked if I had ever slept in the same bed as number 3 (Matt). I said no, because we haven't, and he messaged me with, "What are you talking about? We sleep in the same bed all the time!!" I think he was just being him, but should I read more into this?
Anyway, I'm wondering if you think that he'll ever like me as more than a little sister/friend, and if you think I should be a little more flirtatious, or if you think he's just an amazing friend.
I love him a lot, it's just a matter of whether it's going to go anywhere. Like, I respect him soo much and he respects me a lot, too, and I know that we'll always keep in touch, but I want to marry this guy.
Sounds kind of desperate, huh?
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ok when a guy says something like he has a bad rep. that means that he doesnt want you to flirt with any other guy but him. but if you want to know if he really likes you then talk to him by saying. there is this guy that i really like and i dont know if he likes me? what should i do? and if he replys like o i bet that guy isnt for you or something like that then he likes you. get it? then when he asks who it is then you lean in and whisper in his ear, YOU! it seems like he likes you too. and your not desperate your just in love and thats great! you guys seem like you will last a long time.
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I HAD to answer this one i about cried when i read it this is like melt your heart!! Aww sweetie! Be open with him! He will appreciate it. You and "Donny" he was prolly really jealous and wanted to make sure you didn't like him because he might secretly like you. Please i need to know more about this please rate this give a comment about your myspace or anything i can contact you on because i wanna know what happens!!
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That's adorable, it really is. I think if you're this confused and curious about his feelings toward you, you need to either confront him about them or be cute and write him a note. Tell him you've been thinking lately that you like him, but you didn't know if he liked you as a friend or more of a little sister. Make sure you two don't date and then break-up, and then the friendship might be ruined or awkward. Just be open with him and I`m sure he will appreciate it.
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