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my boyfriend is somewhat controlling.
okay, i just realized that my boyfriend can be really controlling at points.
like earlier today, i was on the phone with him and i was on myspace too, and he asked me if i was on myspace and i told him i was and he got mad because i have a bone disease in my wrist and so it like makes it worse when i type and so he got mad and he was like you didnt tell me that you were gonna get on the computer. and he does that constantly.
and he sometimes treats me like his dog or pet or something.
like at church if i just stand there and dont follow him, he'll like yell at me and say something like get your butt over here! or why aren't u coming with me? and he'll say it with an attitude and it seems like hes the one on his period.
but i just dont know what to do about it.
should i wait a couple of days and see if it gets worse or talk to him about it???
please and thank you.
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If he doesn't clean up his act, you have to break up with him. Make it clear to him that this is his last chance.
This hits really close to home for me, because I'm helping a friend with getting over an abusive relationship. She dated this guy for two years, and it ended when she stabbed him in January. Keep in mind, this girl has no history of violence and she's only 19.
If he starts to make you feel like you have no friends except him, if he raises a hand in violence against you, if you start to feel worthless without him, if you start to feel like dying is the only way out of this relationship, leave him.
I know it's easier said than done, but it's for your own good. You can do better than an abusive man. If he starts being more respectful, then that's great! It might mean he was just in a bad mood.
Good luck!
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My mom had probs like this with her ex-bf, and I told her, if he doesnt treat you with the respect you deserve, then he deserve you. Talk to him and lay down some ground rules like that yoo won't take it if he treats you like a dog and watches you like a hawk. As for the wrist condition, he's only looking out for you, because he cares. I know this is confusing but trust me. Even though he's being mean, he might be trying to make sure that our not going to get hurt. But then agian tell him that your not going to take his crap.
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oka one controlling boyfriend are a pain in the ass dont take that shit form him at all.And when yall talk on the phone and he ask what you doin you dont have to tell him everything you doing its really not his bussnies just say notihing just chillin or watever.Second talk to him tell him how you feel about what he doing to you,and dont be afraid to tell him.And third having a controlling boyfriend can lead to somting worse like abruse or somthing somtimes sometimes not but you really need to talk to him straight form your heart of how you feel
good luck.
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with the myspace thing? what the hell.
you dom't have to tell him every thing you do.
the last part, umm, he's a little bit clingy.
gahh, guys like that piss me off.
then again, i get annoyed to easily sometimes. =]
well, if it's really bothering you, go ahead & talk to him about it & politely ask him to stop. the longer you hold it in, the angrier you'll get.
if he doesn't stop after that, he needs a life.
dump him.
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