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what do guys see as flirting???


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 7:29 pm

hey anyone have any good ways of flirting with a best friend that always flirts with you. he is a really funny guy and really sweet too and most people think he likes me back. the thing is i think we're both a little shy about saying how we feel. so he'll do like indirect things. he hugs every girl but he holds hands with me and no one else. and he always says i love you to me. usually its like he pretends to be mean like he'll say "i hope you get hit by a car!" jokingly of course and then ill say ok and he'll be like just kidding I LOVE YOU. and i know its corny or stupid or whatever but he looks for any excuse to hold my hand or hug me and we're like always together. we're going on a field trip soon and he asked if i wanna sit n...

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11 months....!!??


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 5:13 pm

16/f. At the beginning of June I broke up with my bf. We were together five months. It's been eleven months and I'm still in love with him. And I can't tell him. He's my best friend. But I'm tired of all of it. He is always on my mind, every day. I can't sleep right, or eat. I am constantly in a bad mood, especially around the time of when it should be our anniversy and when it is the date we broke up. I've tried to move on, and I can't. I've thought of getting together with other guys but I know that isn't fair to them because I'm in love with my ex, and I realize I don't like them like that. But I'm tired of it all, and I want to move on. I've tried before, but unsuccessfully. But I have to now, it's too much. It is screwin...

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He is a She.


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 5:08 pm

I've been talking to this guy through Myspace and MSN for over a month. I liked him so much, and we were I don't want to say dating, but sort of "involved" over the computer. He was so different from other boys...and now I know why. "He" is a girl.

She looks just like a guy, and all of her Myspace pictures were really of her! She didn't tell me she was a girl. I messaged one of her friends and said, "Hi I'm *Bob's (not her real name) friend. I really like him." and her friend messaged me back and said, "*Bobs my friend, but she is a girl." I told Bob this and he admitted it and said, "I shouldn't be a girl. I should be a guy."

I am heartbroken. This wasn't jus...

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Sick of it!!!


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 3:44 pm

I'm so sick of being the shy little nice passive girl that I am; I'm always ignored,especially by guys. There's this kid that I really really like and just when I think I have a chance with him this random girl comes along and flirts with him like crazyyy and I'm just so tired of being too shy to do anything about it. What can I do to get this guy's, or any guy's, attention? Other than the obvious; like talking to him about his hobbies, music, laughing at his jokes, blah blah blah because that's obviously not working to well.

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turn offs and ons


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 3:05 pm

this is about waht guys find attractive in girls.

what are turn offs - phsyically and personality wise
what are some turn ons - physically and personality wise

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boyfriend problems


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 1:34 pm

Well I have a friend we will call her Brittany and I have a boyfriend we will call him John well John was msging Brittany on myspace and I was having Brittany ask him if he really did like me and if he was starting to fall inlove with me. Well John said he did like me and yes he was starting to fall inlove with me. Well then he told her that she was hott and she said well i've got a boyfriend and your dating my best friend he goes oh well im just playing and then he said but i'd do anything with you but don't tell my girlfriend (which is me). Brittany said ugh excuse me thats something to say to her BEST FRIEND... Well he knows I have his myspace name and password. My friend Shell told me about him saying that to Brittany. And I got on his...

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I am retarded!


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 11:10 am

OKay so there is this guy that REALLY like and i am pretty sure that he feels the same.....The only problem is that for soome reason we are shy around eachother(we both arent usually shy people) and everyone is teling me to go for it.. even my teachers!!! and i want to but idk whats stopping me...... can anyone help me?? I know its a hard question to answer but i would really appreciate it...

Thanx<3

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DO I GIVE UP ON US BECAUSE OF PRIDE?


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 5:47 am

I have been dating this guy for over a year. I have 2 girls and we all moved in with him. We have a great relationship. He is in the Army and left for 14 months for training and as soon as school gets out me and the girls are going to move out of state to be with him. He has been nagging me to get my password for the bank acct. I told him as soon as he gives me his, I will give him mine. He blew up. He's the type to always be in control. There's alot more to the story but he said we are breaking up over a password. We love each other but..come on. Am I standing my ground and we may lose each other over something as stupid as a password?

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if someone ask you this?


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 5:09 am

if your best friend told you that they like you and they are the same sex as you. will you stay friends? or not? please explain.

if they ask you this question "why did you seem okay when i told you how i felt about you?" meaning when the best friend told you how they care and love you more than a friend, why didnt you responed to it. do you like me back or afriad to tell me you hated it when i told you?

this happen to me, i told my best friend that i like like her. she didnt responed to it but very surpized. this happen 3 years ago. now i cant stop thinking about the talk. why didnt she answer my question when i send her the note that read:"why did you seem alright when i told you how i felt?&q...

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REVENGE


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 1:06 am

I need revenge. what kind of revenge can i do if my boyfriend is talking to another girl? whats something to make him jealous? whats the best way to make him jealous? answer all those questions please!

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Compatablility


Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 1:03 am

18f/ Can you make a relationship work if you are not compatible. Like you view relationships completely different from one another. Can you make it work if you're really in love???

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when im alone with him


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 10:50 pm

ahh ok so this guy - my best friend- i think he likes me too and he always flirts and hugs me and holds my hand and i want to let him know i like him. whats something really flirty that i could do to make him realize how i feel. like something cute that he might like. i dont know like maybe a kiss on the cheek would be too much? hmm oh well help me think of stuff! haha thanx a bunch ; )

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he flirts, and that's it


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 10:44 pm

there is a boy named frankie who seems to flirt with me when i see him at an after school activity. unless he is completely messing with me, i am pretty sure he is trying to flirt with me. however, there is another girl named mallory in our school (not in the after school activity) who he obviously likes. he hangs out with her, and basically anyone that knows them knows he likes her & she likes him. why would he even bother to flirt with me if he so obviously likes this girl? and i don't want to like him & i constantly tell myself to not think about him, but as soon as he starts flirting with me he makes it impossible. i don't dare say i like him, but i can see myself starting to & i don't know how to stop it. what should i do about this?

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ahh..


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 10:34 pm

ok, so i just found out that the boy i like likes me. we danced at a dance awhile back, but we really never got to know eachother. and my friends like "ohh, tomarrow you'll see!" and i think he wants to ask me out..? im wicked nervous for a couple things.

1. i only know him some-what
2. if he does get to know me,im afriad he wont like me.
3. if he asks me out i'll probably ruin it,or be a bad girlfriend.
i'm wicked nervous,as you can see, i haven't had a boyfriend in awhile, i just dont know what to do! should i go for it? help? :D

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my girlfriend


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 10:26 pm

ok soi need help im now going out with this girl and i been waithing 4 this 4 a while but she said we need 2 go slow but how do i know how slow slow is cuz im afraid if i go 2 slow she will break up with me but iif i go 2 fast it will be the same so what do i do?

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i'm like so confused


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 9:37 pm

okay well there is this guy that last year i didn't even know and this year i like him...a lot we'll call him jim.well anyway jim is best freinds with the guy i used to like before him. well jim likes my friend and i can tell she likes him back we'll call her alice. well anyway she just asked me for his number and ik now that she is going to call and flirt she a lready knows that i like him but i don't think she know how much. i'm the kind of friend that if 2 people like each other i won't getr in the way....but i like him way to much and it would kill me to see him with her. how do i let jim know that i like him without seeming like a whore since i got close with his freind last year....nothing sexual though and how do i let my friend know...

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he's taken.. but i think i like him


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 8:12 pm

sorry if its sort of long.

alright so im a sophmore n he's a freshman. i met him like 3 weeks ago n we've been talking ever since. He always im's me first n always flirts with me n always like talks to me in the halls. But the problem is... he has a girlfriend (a sophmore also. we're not really friends just aquaintences) ok. so the other night he was saying how im really pretty/hott n stuff.. and then randomly he brought up who i like n i didnt want to tell him so i sorta worked my way around it.. n then he's like well "who says i wont break up with my g.f. and sweep you off your feet" and i was like now theres a thought haha. n he was like now i cant have you falling for me n i was like ha i never said i was. but Y...

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why is he tring to mke me jealous


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 8:04 pm

there is this boy named nick he broke up with me. a mouth later he had a nother girl named abby what did i care but untill my friend came over and said you know abby he really wasn't going out with her. my friend said that he was tring to make me jealous. which was oveis.


what should i do

(i'm 17 and female) (he is 18 and male)

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why doesn't she just back off?


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 6:26 pm

There is this girl jesse, and she is constantly flirting with my boyfriend! I am sooooo sick of it! cuase not only does she flirt with him she does it in front of me! my best friend told her to stop flirting with him and she's like, omg Amanda (that's me) need to stop being so over protective of him! then she said she's not even flirting with him! But the problem is she never stop flirting with him! she'll go up and start poking him in his sides and belly and will be all touchy on him and it just makes me uber mad! please tell me what i should do! cuase confronting her doesn't work!
Thanks,
Manders

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summer


Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 6:02 pm

ok sorry if this is long...
so i'm 14/f and in 8th grade. and back when i was in sixth grade me and this guy jamie really liked each other. but we always pretended we didn't, but we both knew we liked each other. then, half way through sixth grade he moved to hong kong, like actually to live there. we talked online a little bit and we both admitted that we liked each other. then during 3rd quarter that year i started going out with this guy ben. well, school in hk wasn't working out for jamie, so he came back for 4th quarter. but i was still going out with ben then, so jamie stopped flirting with me. but i dumped ben before jamie went back to hong kong, and then we flirted. so anyway, during 7th grade i talked to jamie a little bit a...

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