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i'm like so confused
okay well there is this guy that last year i didn't even know and this year i like him...a lot we'll call him jim.well anyway jim is best freinds with the guy i used to like before him. well jim likes my friend and i can tell she likes him back we'll call her alice. well anyway she just asked me for his number and ik now that she is going to call and flirt she a lready knows that i like him but i don't think she know how much. i'm the kind of friend that if 2 people like each other i won't getr in the way....but i like him way to much and it would kill me to see him with her. how do i let jim know that i like him without seeming like a whore since i got close with his freind last year....nothing sexual though and how do i let my friend know that i like him alot and really wish she wouldn't do that/.
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If you got close with his friend last year, then why should he care? It was in the past, and we're definitely in the present right now. The past shouldn't matter to him, and if it does, well then that's stupid.
If you like him a lot, you need to tell her that. Tell her it would kill you to see them together because you like him so much. Hopefully she'll take the talk you guys have into consideration, and if she doesn't, then you can't do anything about it. And you need to back off.
If they do happen to go out, find ways to get over it. There are lots of other guys out there. He's not the only one for you. By just liking him, you're missing out on so many other guys who like you. If at all possible, like a lot of guys at once. It'll leave you with a problem of who to choose of more than one of them likes you back, but then if it doesn't work out with one, then you've got another one to fall back on.
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hmm. well ever thinks shes thinking what the same thing as you. All is fair in love and war. if he likes her, don't bother. if he didn't see how great you are already, then hes not worth it
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