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ok, so i just found out that the boy i like likes me. we danced at a dance awhile back, but we really never got to know eachother. and my friends like "ohh, tomarrow you'll see!" and i think he wants to ask me out..? im wicked nervous for a couple things.
1. i only know him some-what
2. if he does get to know me,im afriad he wont like me.
3. if he asks me out i'll probably ruin it,or be a bad girlfriend.
i'm wicked nervous,as you can see, i haven't had a boyfriend in awhile, i just dont know what to do! should i go for it? help? :D
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Sure, by all means go for it. :D
1) The best thing to do is either go out with him and get to know him or just say you'd like ot go out with him but you want to get to know him first so if you can both just hang out for a bit first till you know more about him. Either way even if you do go out with him andhe's not what you expected then you can always break things off. Just because you're going out it doesn't mean you have to do anything with him. Just get to know him first.
2) Aww, why would you say that? Why wouldn't he like you if he got to know you? You're just being paranoid and it's nothing to worry about. At the end of the day you do want him to like you for who you are right? :D So be yourself and if he likes you for you then it's all good. If he doesn't then to hell with him; you'll easily find another guy - there's plenty out there on the horizon.
3) Again, you're just being paranoid. Don't worry about it. Just be yourself and you'll do fine. I think the only way anyone can ruin a relationship is by lying or cheating. As long as you're honest and such you'll make an awesome girlfriend. :]
As I said though, it's up to you if you want to say yes or no to him but either way just get to know him before you decide to go further than just dating and such because as you said yourself you don't know all that much about him and at the end of the day to get into a relationship you do need to know if you like him for who he is and not just for what he looks like on the outside (and what people say he's like).
Good luck and remember, no worryin about things or puttin yourself down. You'll be awesome. :D
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Yes, go for it! If you want, when he asks you out you could always say you like him but you want to get to know each other better before you date, if you're not comfortable dating him now. If he does get to know you and doesn't like you anymore it's his loss, there are tons of guys in the world. You WON'T ruin anything, if you decide to go out with him then just be you. You wont be a bad girlfriend, you're just nervous. If you really like this guy and are loyal to him then you wont be a bad girlfriend. Dating isn't something you forget how to do. All you have to do is decide if he's really who you want. Good Luck!
::Jasmine::
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