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what do guys see as flirting???
hey anyone have any good ways of flirting with a best friend that always flirts with you. he is a really funny guy and really sweet too and most people think he likes me back. the thing is i think we're both a little shy about saying how we feel. so he'll do like indirect things. he hugs every girl but he holds hands with me and no one else. and he always says i love you to me. usually its like he pretends to be mean like he'll say "i hope you get hit by a car!" jokingly of course and then ill say ok and he'll be like just kidding I LOVE YOU. and i know its corny or stupid or whatever but he looks for any excuse to hold my hand or hug me and we're like always together. we're going on a field trip soon and he asked if i wanna sit next to him on the bus and i said yes. lol i sound like a little kid saying all of this. how can i show him i like him because he doesnt know at all. i think im a little shy in this department because he does most of the flirting and i just go along with it. like if he holds my hand or something ill just let him or if he wants an extra hug ill give it to him. how do guys KNOW a girl likes them without actaully telling them? thanx a bunch guys i appreciate it especially if ur a guy. =)
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You have a great opportunity to find out what he thinks of when you sit next to him on the bus. Tell him you've been friends for a very long time and trust one another but that you really need to know if when he says "I love you." is a joke or not.
He has nowhere to go with you sitting next to him so maybe he will come clean if you just ask. Then if he admits it you can tell him where you stand. You have an opening here a mack truch could get through so use it to your advantage.
Other ways you can flirt is playing with your hair, let him catch you looking at him (once or twice), compliments etc. and invite him to your parties and to hang out with friends and build on your friendship.
Trust me he knows by now how shy you are because he probably is too and beside himself on what to do here. Make it easy and use the opening line above about the meaning of "i love you" when you're together on the bus as he has nowhere to go but to sit with you.
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