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boyfriend problems
Well I have a friend we will call her Brittany and I have a boyfriend we will call him John well John was msging Brittany on myspace and I was having Brittany ask him if he really did like me and if he was starting to fall inlove with me. Well John said he did like me and yes he was starting to fall inlove with me. Well then he told her that she was hott and she said well i've got a boyfriend and your dating my best friend he goes oh well im just playing and then he said but i'd do anything with you but don't tell my girlfriend (which is me). Brittany said ugh excuse me thats something to say to her BEST FRIEND... Well he knows I have his myspace name and password. My friend Shell told me about him saying that to Brittany. And I got on his myspace in Class and checked it. and he did say all of that to her.
Now wouldn't you think if he really did like me, that he wouldn't be flirting with my BEST FRIEND. what should i say to him. I mean I just want to talk to him about it. If it leads to breaking up then it does. but yeah
I need some help!
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Well, I would think that if you liked him you would talk to him yourself instead of having your friend do it for you. If you actually talked to him about how he feels about you and how you feel about him he will connect to you. If you have your friend have intimate conversations with him all the time he's probably going to start liking her because to him, it looks like she cares about his feelings a lot more than you. All of this can be solved if you stop talking to him through your friends and talk to him yourself. Now for your current situation. Ask him about what he said. Don't let him know that you checked his myspace, just tell him you heard it from someone, which you did. Don't accuse him of anything, just ask him and see if he lies about it. If he lies, you're going to have to make a decision of whether or not you can continue trusting him. If he doesn't lie, let it go. Who cares if he thinks your friend is hot? He's not dating your friend, he's dating you. He thinks you are hotter. :)
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Well he sounds like a pervy loser. 1. rule of dating= best friends cant like boyfriends and boyfriends cant like their girlfriends best friend. haha i know that was confusing. Just talk to him about it, if he denies it, leave him on the spot, if he admits to it and apologizes, give it like a week and if it happens again DUMP HIM.
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I'd have to agree with you - that's not the smartest thing to be saying especially to your girlfriends best friend. I can imagine if her boyfriend found out he would also want words with him about what he had said.
It might have just been some innocent flirting but the thing that's nagging is the 'i'd do anything with you but don't tell my girlfriend' part. It simply suggests to me he would happily do things with her behind your back and keep it a secret from you. I'll say this much - at least your friend told him to get lost (although not in so many words).
I think you should just talk to him about it and ask him what his game is. At the end of the day you've a right to know what's going on because if he's willing to cheat on you (that's basicly what he was saying as far as I can see it) then there might be a big problem as far as your relationship goes with him because you need to know you can trust him.
Hope everything works out okay either way and good luck in talking to him.
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