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he flirts, and that's it
there is a boy named frankie who seems to flirt with me when i see him at an after school activity. unless he is completely messing with me, i am pretty sure he is trying to flirt with me. however, there is another girl named mallory in our school (not in the after school activity) who he obviously likes. he hangs out with her, and basically anyone that knows them knows he likes her & she likes him. why would he even bother to flirt with me if he so obviously likes this girl? and i don't want to like him & i constantly tell myself to not think about him, but as soon as he starts flirting with me he makes it impossible. i don't dare say i like him, but i can see myself starting to & i don't know how to stop it. what should i do about this?
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Two truths: Humans can like more than one person at a time. Flirting is often just flirting for fun and not serious. Accept these truths. They are especially true of guys who are notorious for messing with as many girls as they can possibly get away with. Not all are so, but enough that the entire gender is famous for it. If you enjoy the flirting there is nothing wrong with it, as long as you don't think it means anything more. Don't ever let a guy manipulate you in this way, and you will be fine.
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Maybe you have something she doesn't, so he flirts with you to find it. Either that, or he's bored & likes flirting. Whatever it may be, just ignore it.
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