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if someone ask you this?
if your best friend told you that they like you and they are the same sex as you. will you stay friends? or not? please explain.
if they ask you this question "why did you seem okay when i told you how i felt about you?" meaning when the best friend told you how they care and love you more than a friend, why didnt you responed to it. do you like me back or afriad to tell me you hated it when i told you?
this happen to me, i told my best friend that i like like her. she didnt responed to it but very surpized. this happen 3 years ago. now i cant stop thinking about the talk. why didnt she answer my question when i send her the note that read:"why did you seem alright when i told you how i felt?"
i was expecting for her to not talk to me or not be my friend, and stop being close too. but till now till this day she is still my friend and we are close too. (but not in that way)
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Someone's sexual orientation should not be an issue if you're dealing with a true friend. I think your friend is very open-minded see you for who you are and who you've always been: a true friend. Three years of friendship will not be thrown out the door because you confess a deeper fondness for her--and I think that's beautiful. As for myself in a situation like this, I've been there. I've had several friends that made that same confession and it never made one difference to me. I mean, honestly, some people feel that the moment something like that happens you should withdraw your friendship immediately and run for cover. Ridiculous! The mere fact that when you told her and she didn't flip out and act crazy means she has a certain amount of trust in you and in your friendship. Kudos to both of you!
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Well after 3 years of still being your friend, she is dealing with the issue but rather have your friendship than loose it. But obvisously she does not feel the same about you as you do her.
Accept the friendship, be thankful and move on to another romantic opportunity.
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well she does love uou just not as more then a friens
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Why?
Because it's simple. There's nothing to respond to. It was a confession. That's the end of it.
And why is she still with you and so close?
Obvious: she's a true friend. Hang on to her tight!...She's a rarity in this world.
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Kay.
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