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REVENGE


Question Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 1:06 am

I need revenge. what kind of revenge can i do if my boyfriend is talking to another girl? whats something to make him jealous? whats the best way to make him jealous? answer all those questions please!

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christina answered Friday May 4 2007, 6:51 pm:
Revenge can be sweet, but karma is a bitch. Always remember that.

Don't get revenge. If your boyfriend is talking to another girl [as if he's interested in her], then dump him. Why stay with him & plot so much time to get revenge? If he doesn't like you anymore, then that's something you need to accept. It's his loss, and if he doesn't realize that, then he's even dumber.

Just find someone new, and when he realizes exactly what he's lost & he comes crawling back, laugh at him.

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alliekat answered Thursday May 3 2007, 11:30 pm:
Hmm I'd go with definitely trying to look the sexiest you can. Definitely make sure you look your best. Make up, minny skirts, tanks, anything that draws attention to you but doesn't scream that your trying to make him notice. Boys definitely love sexy flirting so maybe just kinda talking in a sexy tone and winking or something boys love that. I'd also suggest not making a huge deal about it because if you act like you don't need him and look your best he will get nervous that he might loose you. But if you act clingy boys definitely draw away from that. Just try your hardest to look your best and make him think that you don't need him, that ALWAYS makes boys run for me.

Hope I could help!

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thecarsdownthehill answered Thursday May 3 2007, 5:54 pm:
well you wanna get back to him.. but you have to make sure you dont ruin your relationship by doing something stupid..
bringing up other boys.. or just talking and flirting with other boys in front of him would do the trick..
but dont push it.. talking to another girl really isnt that big of a deal and you dont wanna over react..

good luck
..:jenny

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john423mb answered Thursday May 3 2007, 4:07 pm:
doing revenage on him is not the way to get him back it may just get worse. The thing to do is to go talk to him tell him how you feel about him talking to other girls make him remember what a great girl he has.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday May 3 2007, 11:03 am:
Ummm slash his eyes out? Seriously, why would you want to hurt him, he's your boyfriend! If you don't like him or his habits break up with him. That being said, you're going to have this problem with any guy you date. So, actually, he's not the problem. You are. You need to change, not him. You can't prevent your boyfriend from talking to other girls. You really can't be this jealous. Do you talk to other guys? Of course you do. Even if you don't have any male friends, which I can't believe that you don't, if a guy in your class asks you a question about a homework problem you aren't going to just run away from him because he's not your boyfriend. Maybe your boyfriend is just a nice person. Ever think of that? Just because he's talking to her doesn't mean anything is going on. EVEN if he likes her, who cares? He's with you. He likes you more. You can't control all of his feelings, just the feelings he has about you. If you are overly jealous, making him feel bad about talking to other girls is only going to make him dislike you. It's not going to make him dislike the entire female population. He looks at other girls as people. You should too. Let's pretend for a minute that you stay with this guy through high school and college and end up getting married to him. He gets a job working in a law office and is given a female assistant. He's not allowed to TALK to her? Come on. You need to be able to trust the people you date if your relationships with them are going to work out. If you can't handle that he is talking to other girls, you aren't mature enough for relationships in general. Don't get me wrong. It's natural for it to bug you that he's talking to other girls. It bugs everyone, even me sometimes, but I can handle it. My guess is that you're relatively young and haven't had enough experience with relationships to learn how to handle something like this. This is your opportunity to learn how to handle it. So, my advice to you is either break up with him because you can't handle it, or stay with him and learn how to handle it. Good luck. :)

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xokristabelle answered Thursday May 3 2007, 10:18 am:
Honestly, that's not how guys work. Wear something cute, be confident, that's about all you can do. Any other kind of revenge would just make him angry and possibly break up with you.

Why shouldn't he talk to other girls? You talk to other guys, don't you? Chances are they are just friends, and there's nothing wrong with that. Guys with friends who are girls tend to be better at communicating, etc.

If you really feel it's a problem, tell him. Not, "I feel jealous" but maybe something to the equivalent of "who's she?". If you need to, tell him you feel strange about his spending some much time with girls. But don't bother trying to make him jealous because it will not work.

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cHaSsi3x answered Thursday May 3 2007, 1:16 am:
don't do anything too too mean. but revenge is always sweet ;]. start flirting/talking/hanging around with other guys. his friends would be better, because then he may get jealous that you're spending more time with his friends than him. talk about other guys in front of them, or ask another guy to the movies or something. hope that helps! oh and if he is really a good boyfriend, then he wouldn't be talkin' to other girls in the first place! so best of luck to ya!!

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