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why doesn't she just back off?
There is this girl jesse, and she is constantly flirting with my boyfriend! I am sooooo sick of it! cuase not only does she flirt with him she does it in front of me! my best friend told her to stop flirting with him and she's like, omg Amanda (that's me) need to stop being so over protective of him! then she said she's not even flirting with him! But the problem is she never stop flirting with him! she'll go up and start poking him in his sides and belly and will be all touchy on him and it just makes me uber mad! please tell me what i should do! cuase confronting her doesn't work!
Thanks,
Manders
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making you shouldn't be talking to her but rather your boyfriend.if it bothers you that much & your boyfriend cared for you he would let her know that he doesn't appreciate it because he already has a girlfriend.no matter what just keep your cool.the more she see's its getting to you & bothering you, the more it makes her happy.if you trust your boyfriend that's all that should matter.don't let her ruin you & your boyfriends relationship
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If talking to Jesse doesn't work then you should try talking to your boyfriend. Tell him you're not trying to be over protective or obsessive, but this girl that is constantly flirting with him really bothers you. He probably doesn't realize how much it bugs you, and if he doesn't like her then he should have no problem telling her to stop. Maybe once she hears it from him and gets the hint she'll stop.
::Jasmine::
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She isn't the one to confront, he is. Tell him it is making you mad. If he cares about you, he should tell her to back off. You have every right to be upset about it. And if i were you i would confront him about it in front of her, so she understands you arent playing around and so he understands that too. You aren't being over protective, if someone did that to my fiance i would scratch their eyes out. Put your foot down, he allows her to do it, he is just as guilty.
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if i was in this argument i would go up to her when she is flirting and stand up to her and tell her no straight to her and maybe she'll stay away. tell you boyfirend how you feel about him flirting with other girls in front of you!
John
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Hey Amanda,
I can't tell you how annoying this is, but you seem to know ;)
Instead of talking to the girl, talk to your boyfriend. Get him to say something to her. If he won't, then you definitely need to put your foot down and keep your man!
Tell her to back off, and stop acting like such a whore.
-Katie
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