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should i go out w/ him?
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 8:43 pm
im 14/f 9th grade never had a boyfriend.
there's this guy that really likes me. he's always asking how i feel if i seem sad he asks me if im okay and whats on my mind. i'm friends with him but i never really thought of us as anything other than friends. i really want a boyfriend because i want to know how it feels, but then again i don't want to just date someone then break up with them in like a month because i feel no chemistry between us. but on the other hand i'm afraid of not having my first boyfriend until im like 20. i know it doesnt matter what age but i just want to experience it young so i know what its like...so with you knowing all this do you think i should go out with him or no? thanks soo much for answering.
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Should I still be friends
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 8:30 pm
Hi, This might be a little long but i really need ya'll advice thanks!
I had broke up with my boyfriend because i didn't have as strong of feelings for him that he did with me. But, I still wanted to be friends. Well oneday me, him and my friend were talking on the phone after we got off, he had called my friend back and was acting like someone else at first then he told her who it really was. So then he kept asking her all these questions type of questions you would ask someone that you would like to get to know better. Then he said can Chris come see you( the boy he was pretending to see) she said yea he can come see me. Then he asked if he could see her she said no. Then she said shouldn't he be talking to me then she hung...
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Twin trouble...
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 8:14 pm
19/F
My boyfriend of nearly 8 months and I are living together (I just moved in) and we're both university students. I love him dearly.
He has a twin brother. This brother has no social life, or social skills for that matter. I like him, he's a nice guy.
The problem is that my boyfriend constantly puts his brother ahead of me. I know that their bond is deeper than the bond between us is, because they've been together for 20 years of their lives, and I'm just a new addition.
I posted a while back about a ruined 6 month anniversary, in which my boyfriend rejected my plan of cooking him a nice dinner, in favour of Taco Bell and playing video games with his brother. The same sort ...
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confused about a boy
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 6:21 pm
So theres this guy that I once went out with but he cheated on me with a girl not even a week later. We got into an argument and he said that he didn't regret it. This happened almost a year ago and he had had a girlfriend for 4 months and recently broke up. Now he claims that he was really sorry and only yelled at me because he didn't konw what else to do. I know it sounds stupid but he was talking to a friend of mine and she sent me the conversation and it seems as if he's being sincere and honest. He said that he regrets breaking up with me and cheating on me and its the biggest mistake of his life. At first I said serves him right, but now that we talk alot more, I'm starting to like him again.. I know its wrong and some people think I ...
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this is really long. but please help
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 6:11 pm
okay well..theres ths guy kevin..andd we've been like dating on and off since 7th grade, were now in 9th. well we havent gone out since december of 8th..but we've always been talking on and off since them. well i know i like him ALOT! and one night he told me that he liked me and i didnt think that i liked him until like the next day so i told him iliked him and we were like talking. then one night one guy im'd me and told me to call him tonight..but i told him if he wants o talk to me, he can call me. well while i was talking to him i kinda gave up on kevin and i was going after this guy. [ he goes to my school in 11th grade] and then me and that other kid stopped talking bc hbe wa getting to gross and then kevin started talking to this gi...
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Really have no idea what to do.
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 6:06 pm
Ok well heres my sittuation.
I have a bf and hes in anyones eyes great. He treats me very very well, is very nice, and i can tell him anything. The thing is, I don't really like him that much. We've only been going out for a week. And i really didn't want to go out with him in the first place but i just couldn't turn him down b.c hes super nice and he really likes me.
I know that sounds weird but this kid is seriously really really nice and sweet - i have no idea why i dont like him like him.
Well yeah so theres him which i barly even like, and then we have an ex that i like very very much. Its been over a year, and not too long ago we tried starting up things but he just stopped talking to me pretty much...
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Help me get a guy!!!!!!!
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 5:07 pm
I like this guy and I dont think he knows I even exist, hes hard to get to because hes not in my class,hes always with his friends,and he hangs out with my worst enemys!! anyways he likes sports (hes always playing basketball, or dogeball, trowing a tennis ball ect) and Im weak ant cant even shoot a hoop! how do i get his attention?
im 13
and a girl
please answer.. TT.TT
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guy
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 4:58 pm
I really like this guy
and I love the way I feel when I am
around him.
I think he likes me but i'm not sure.
I need tips to see if he likes me.
Help.
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HELP!!
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 2:57 pm
ok i recently posted this..
ok..me and my boyfriend were doing perfectly fine and then today he was like.. i cant be with you i'm sorry..i still love my ex more than anything...and when i read that.. i just broke down in tears..we both fell in love with each other..deeply..and he did that to me..and i still love him no matter what..and i cant convince him to come back to me..what should i do or tell him that might make him come back to me..i tried telling him how i felt about him..and i dunno what to tell him now..he's the first person i've felt this way about since i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years..PLEASE HELP MEE PLEASEEE!! :'( i've been bawling the past 5 hours!!!
and the other day he imed me a...
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24/7
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 2:43 pm
i think about her 24/7 all my life for 8 years. i told her how i felt about her and she was shocked but said she was fine with it, but not sure what gender she likes. and doesnt want a relationship right now.
she said she doesnt look at me in that way.
she is a touchy person, sits very close to me, leans her heead on me and i can hear a sigh, holds my arm close once before like a hug while she lean her head on me. ( this is before i told her)
but she and i still hang out and talk to each other.
i start to think 'i should move on' but i cry when i think of that.
she might like me or its in my head
i'm moving to hawaii in 2 years, it was already plained before i told her how i felt.
i told her...
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Best Friend
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 7:47 am
Ok. There probaly is someone with the same problem, but please dont tell me that. Im kind of in a hurry. My bestfriend is a guy. I hang out with him everyday and he even walks me to work everyday. I like him a lot, more than a friend, but I dont know how to tell him that. His best friend, who is also a really good friend of mine, is already aware of it. I am a 16 yr. old girl. The thing is, lets say he does like me back if i tell him. He is 15. I want to try to see if it works out, but I dont want to take the risk of everything being akward and losing him as a friend completely. All my old guy friends that I went out with ended up not staying friends cause things just got too akward. And plus since I am turning 17 soon, it's kind of a big d...
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long distance Dilemma
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 7:16 am
22/f
OK I met this great guy recently. We are kinda together but not really official. All we have is kissed a bunch. Problem is we live far apart. like 2 hours. We met at a club that is an hour away for each of us so that is the only time we really get to see each other because of work or he is in college. I have once surprised him by driving 2 hours to see him in a show he was performing in. He was really happy to see me and talked for hours. We just really click. or so I thought. well I got to see him last Saturday at the club and we were having lots of fun and everything. as it was time to go he was walking me to the car and I said, "One of these days you are going to have to come up to (my town) one time." hoping for an...
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getting over him
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 3:11 am
how do you get over someone? I mean, it's been amost two months since i've seen him and I miss him so much & we never even went out!!! Sometimes I just think about him and get sad because i miss him so much..
Is this normal?!?! I hate this. It's pathetic!
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I am overwhelmingly in love.
Posted Friday May 11 2007, 1:02 am
I am in love with a boy. I have been in love with him for the past 3 years. Yes i know i am in love. Now I am 100 percent sure.
I see him every day. We do a sport together. We are on a team together. We are a small team, and we are all like family.
I am 16. He is 16. I don't know who he likes. He had really liked a girl on our team, and they went out, but she broke up with him. He was depressed for a day, but he is back to normal.
He is the kind of boy who doesn't like to show he likes a girl. He is pretty touchy feely with all the girls on the team, including me. (but like a brotherly kind of thing, he will "fight" us, "pummel" us, and cuddle with us. I love him)
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Torn
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 11:34 pm
I went away on a week long school trip. When we were there, i had a fling with a guy even though i have a boyfriend. I had a crush on this guy for a few months, like a year ago. But now i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for 8 months. I know he loves me, and i love him too, but since i had a fling with this guy on my trip, i can't stop thinking about him. I'm torn between both guys, 'cause i know the fling guy would want a realationship, he's liked me for 2 years. I really have feelings for both of them, i've been thinking about this for the last 3 weeks, and i decided to stay with my boyfriend, but then when i go to school and see the other guy, i get the butterflies in my stomach, and i can't stop thinking about the way his lips ...
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birthday baffles.
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 11:26 pm
so there's this guy i'm dating [ not like girlfriend boyfriend yet though ], and his birthday's coming up pretty soon, adn i have no idea at all what to get him! we've only been seeing eachother for a very short amount of time, so i can't get anything real cutesy wutesy that a girlfriend might get her boyfriend, but i want it to be something nice.
i just don't have that much cash though, so anybdoy got any good non-expensive but not like, real cheap present ideas that i could get for him?
thanks!
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Boy
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 11:11 pm
(14/f)
I like my guy best friend. Flatout. He has liked me for 3 years and i kept rejecting him. Now when i like him, hes not responding. Its really confusing, but im not sure whether he likes me or not. About a week ago, he asked me to have sex with him. I obviously said no, and asked him after if he liked anyone. He simply replied no. I was really shocked because i thought just maybe he would see ME! Anyway, hes always looking and me and poking me and talks to me when he has the chance. Which is hardly ever! But really im not sure whether he likes me or not! He has liked me for sooo long and its weird how hes acting towards me. He wouldnt look at me in the eye anymore but i still get a sense that he likes me. How do i know?!
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Pointless?
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 10:55 pm
Ok, so Eric a kid one grade higher then me but in the grade im saposed to be in and I hang out. Not after school just on the bus.. but when we hang out on the bus i never want to leave..
I donno its the pointless things that mean the most. Ohh that sounded a lot better in my head.
Like our taste of music the complete oppisite like he listens to 50 Cent and i listen to secondhand serenade... emo rap... umm NO. And i made fun of him today for it :) But when i look in his eyes.. i feal weightless and forget about everything and at that very moment the only thing i wonder is if he's looking in mine..
I never told him i liked him like I planned ofcoarse I chikened out. But i donno maybe i should. we goes days to a time witho...
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how to win her
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 10:46 pm
i loved her, she broke up with her boyfriend. I knew she liked me. I did'nt ask her out or anything, because she would probally have said no. she really liked me too. she even told me she did, she just "didnt act on her thoughts" she didnt know why. now, i missed my oppurtunity and she is startin again with another guy. we both stil ahve feelings for eachother. she is leaving soon too. i already missed my first chance i guess, and now maybe i missed the 2nd too, is it to late?!?! HOW TO I WIN HER BACK, even though she never let me the first time :(
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Breaking up - please help
Posted Thursday May 10 2007, 10:37 pm
I have been in a relationship with my partner for just about four years. I recently moved to another city to study, while he stays in my old town until the end of the year.
I moved away because I felt that I needed some space and our relationship hasn't been meaning as much to me as it used to for some time now.
Recently I met someone very special who I have pretty much fallen head over heels for. They feel the same way and I'd really like to be with that person - and I really am not the kind of person to be impulsive or fall for people easily. I really mean it when I say there is a special connection between us.
So I need to break up with my boyfriend - I don't want to carry on our relationship, even if things don't ...
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