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Really have no idea what to do.
Ok well heres my sittuation.
I have a bf and hes in anyones eyes great. He treats me very very well, is very nice, and i can tell him anything. The thing is, I don't really like him that much. We've only been going out for a week. And i really didn't want to go out with him in the first place but i just couldn't turn him down b.c hes super nice and he really likes me.
I know that sounds weird but this kid is seriously really really nice and sweet - i have no idea why i dont like him like him.
Well yeah so theres him which i barly even like, and then we have an ex that i like very very much. Its been over a year, and not too long ago we tried starting up things but he just stopped talking to me pretty much. But i relaly really like him, like A LOT. I really just want him back. But we never really talk and hes kinda a douch half the time. SO yeah your prob. wondering why i don't like the nice guy, and do like the dick? welll i ask myself the same question.
Urgh it just stresses me out and i have no idea what to do :/
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Well sweetie, you have the same problem I use to have. YOU FALL FOR THE BAD GUYS. lol It really does have some negative effects on your life. I mean, you have the "nice" guy that would treat you like a princess, and then you have the "dick head" that treats you like crap, but you can't seem to not melt around. What you need to ask yourself, is whats better for you? Maybe you don't like the "nice" guy because you have never given him a chance. Maybe he has a little bad boy in him somewhere lol. Just give it a try. Ask yourself where you see yourself in a few years. Getting hurt by the bad guy, or being happy with the nice guy? Hope it helps hun! -Adorkable
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If the relationship with the ex didn't work out the first time, it probably won't work out this time either. So, you probably shouldn't go through with it. You'll save yourself from protential heart-break.
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Basically, keep dating your current boyfriend for a little while longer. If no feelings develop, then break up him with & consider yourselves better as friends.
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well the first guy sounds super sweet! but you've only been going out for a week, so i think you just need to give it a little time. if you want to, you could also tell him that you want a break and just be friends for awhile, and see where it goes from there.
about the other guy. well you havn't been together for over a year, so think to yourself what went wrong the last time. in my experience, exboyfriends usually don't work. but i guess everyone's different, and you seem to like this guy more. so, maybe you should just be single for a bit to figure things out.
whatever you choose to do, make sure it's what YOU really want. hope i helpedddd! :]
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