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should i go out w/ him?
im 14/f 9th grade never had a boyfriend.
there's this guy that really likes me. he's always asking how i feel if i seem sad he asks me if im okay and whats on my mind. i'm friends with him but i never really thought of us as anything other than friends. i really want a boyfriend because i want to know how it feels, but then again i don't want to just date someone then break up with them in like a month because i feel no chemistry between us. but on the other hand i'm afraid of not having my first boyfriend until im like 20. i know it doesnt matter what age but i just want to experience it young so i know what its like...so with you knowing all this do you think i should go out with him or no? thanks soo much for answering.
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a relationship always should start off as friendship. if you and this guy are friends enough that you think you are ready for another step up. then take the lift. having a boyfriend, could be kinda complicating but then again it feels good knowing that you have that one person, too look forward into seeing, and having one person on your mind for hours wondering what to say when you talk to him next. i think maybe, this guy would be great for you to experience dating with. he seems like a sweetie. and no age really don`t matter, it all depends on how your heart feels. everyone has thier own way of living, so don`t just date him because you feel left out of the crowd in high school. like i sed, if your ready for the next big thing, GOO FOR IT HUN. you only live once.&& if you think about it, soon you could waste your time, and he could move on. you will see him walking down the halls holding hands with some other girl, && you just thinking "damn that could have been me".lol. do what ever your little heart desires.
i hope i helped.
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Hmmm...well don't think that you need a bf right now. Its sounds like you in this guy are pretty good friends so don't ruin that over just "wanting" something that might not even be there. But i would say if you havn't really wanted this guy as anything more before, when/if you have anything more...it would be that great and you will just want to be friends again, which is sadly hard to get back :/
But i hope you figure out everything and update me sometime, if you want to about this sitt. :)
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Well, do you like him?
That's really the only issue here. You don't just want a boyfriend for the sake of having one- and that's good. It means you have standards. Don't date a guy just to have a boyfriend, because, like you said, you'll break up with him after a month. And guys actually DO have feelings ;)
It all comes down to if you want to date this guy or not. He seems nice enough. So if you like him, go for it!
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