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this is really long. but please help
okay well..theres ths guy kevin..andd we've been like dating on and off since 7th grade, were now in 9th. well we havent gone out since december of 8th..but we've always been talking on and off since them. well i know i like him ALOT! and one night he told me that he liked me and i didnt think that i liked him until like the next day so i told him iliked him and we were like talking. then one night one guy im'd me and told me to call him tonight..but i told him if he wants o talk to me, he can call me. well while i was talking to him i kinda gave up on kevin and i was going after this guy. [ he goes to my school in 11th grade] and then me and that other kid stopped talking bc hbe wa getting to gross and then kevin started talking to this girl who i'm friends with and all. and i told kevin i liked him but wasn't going to go after him because i didn't wanna fuck up what they had going on. well kevin went after me and yesterday in class he was sitting next to me and he kept like rubbing my leg and i ddin't care but i said stop bc he is talking to that girl and he didn't so whatever i said stop and he still didn't. then i was in a classroom with my friend talking about kevin and he passed and she saidd like there he is and i went in the hall and talked to him and we were standing in the hall he was leaving and he grabbed my boob! and i went into the room and immediately told my friend. then aftterschool isaw kevin hug the girl hes talking to and since she rides my bus i had to tell her waht he did bc i dont think it is right not to..ya know? i didnt want her to get hurt when he was trying to do stuff with other girls. and she told him what i told him and he denied then admitted it today but he won't talk to me and claims i made it up juss to get them not to go out and he said he truly hates me. im a mess right now. was it the right thing to do by telling her? i feel like it was right bc i didn't want her to get hurt and yeah he's talking crap and evertything about me and tells me how much he hates me.. i dont know what to do. help me pleasee
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Yea sweetie you did the right thing. I mean, if you have any doubt what so ever, then just put yourself in her place. What if you were dating a guy and he was all up on some other girl? Wouldn't you want to know? You did her a favor. As for the guy, he doesn't deserve you anyways. So don't sweat it. He is just pissed off because he got caught. Guys do that. You'll get use to it. Just know that you did the right thing. Good luck hun! -Adorkable
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it was definitally the right thing to tell her, you did the right thing. but to me, it seems like Kevin is a very good guy and really should be kicked in the balls a couple times... yeah... but besides that i'm not really sure what you should do. you could always do the lazy thing (which i usually do but something usually goes wrong because i don't follow throgh) which is just wait and see what happens, not talk to Kevin, but still talk to the girl so you know how it's going. or you could always hit it straight on(which i again usually hard to follow throgh and stressful) which would be little trying to prove what kevin did or prove that he is a dickhead and just playing this girl. and get really involved(you know what i mean) do every little thing you can to bring kevin down... to "waiting it out" is easier but sometimes it hard not to get involved. hope everything ends up okay and your life gets back in order.
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