I like this guy and I dont think he knows I even exist, hes hard to get to because hes not in my class,hes always with his friends,and he hangs out with my worst enemys!! anyways he likes sports (hes always playing basketball, or dogeball, trowing a tennis ball ect) and Im weak ant cant even shoot a hoop! how do i get his attention?
im 13
and a girl
please answer.. TT.TT
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xo_summertimegirl_ox answered Friday May 11 2007, 6:55 pm: Start out being friendly to him. Introduce yourself. You dont have to get his attention, there are other ways to do things. Whenever you see him at school, say hi to him and wave. Then, start up conversations with him such as sports. Ask him if you could go to one of his games, and hang out. Maybe try out for a sport to see him even more since you said you dont have any classes with this guy. Before you do all of this make sure you build up your confidence. Unless it come natural for you then you are ok. Practice makes perfect!
EDIT- Do something clever for the # part like for example write it on a slip of paper and slip it in his backpack or whatever. Introduce yourself first before you do that. You might not think you are interesting to yourself, but he might think you are if you just be yourself. =] [ xo_summertimegirl_ox's advice column | Ask xo_summertimegirl_ox A Question ]
elizxabeth answered Friday May 11 2007, 6:53 pm: aw sweetie, just talk to him! yeah he likes sports but so do a lot of guys. i'm sure he won't care if you're not good at sports, trust me i couldn't shoot a hoop to save my life. the reason he may not know you exist is because you havn't talked to him. you just have to be confident in yourself. get to know him, maybe give him your number, and i'm sure things will work out :] [ elizxabeth's advice column | Ask elizxabeth A Question ]
ShortyBug answered Friday May 11 2007, 6:17 pm: okay well you said that he likes sports, you can go up to him and talk maybe about sports or you can get his phone number and call him and talk about anything just if you atleast talk to him for maybe 2 minutes than you will like you and than maybe yull get used to talking to him
Ashumms answered Friday May 11 2007, 5:37 pm: Since he likes sports, read up a little on them and his favorite sports teams so you know something to talk about. Ask him if he knows the score of the game last night (make sure there is a game on that night). Wear a jersey of his favorite player or just ask him if he could help you with your jumpshot.
ThatsMagic answered Friday May 11 2007, 5:33 pm: It is really hard geting a guys attention. You say he likes sports, if he is in a school club or something you could join but as you say you dont really like sports you could try and get his attention, smile and look right in his eyes when you see him, try get his msn address (if he has one) and talk through that, even if one of your friends know him get them to tlak to him and you go with them start with a hello and it might move on from there.
hope you get a chance with this boy
and i hope ive helped x
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