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Double Trouble
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 11:12 pm
Ok, recently a friend of mine introduced me to some other friends of hers. They are twins, and they are guys. I immedeately fell really hard for one of them, but after talking to the other one, I think I like him too. They are both really into music. One of the plays football and is "hotter" than the other, and the other one plays the guitar, and he's just really adorable. They are both funny and really sweet. And I guess I'm just confused on that. I mean, I just met them on Tuesday, I believe it was. Is it possible to fall this hard for someone I just met? And am I a horrible person for liking them both? 'Cause I feel like it.
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the guy who sells iceskates
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 10:44 pm
ook well I'm 13/f first off. I've just got out of a bad experience with a guy who i thought was sweet and adorable but turned out to be a total asshole. (excuse the language) but anyway; I've had my eye on this guy who sells skates at the ice rink i go to every Friday night. well hes really sweet. i mean i have had a normal conversation with him before because hes into the same style as me. but one problem is that he older. not like dramatically older though. maybe for or five years tops. i mean its not that bad right? i mean my aunt and uncle are 10 years apart!! but i don't think age really matters unless its like sickly different. but yeah so anyway, how is a way i can start a conversation? he has a really nice smile and he knows i thin...
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My boyfriend asked another girl for her phne number what sho
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 9:31 pm
My boyfriend likes another girl form Depew nad asked for her number behind my back. I reall like this girl nad i dont know what i should do..
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How can I tell him?
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 8:54 pm
im 14/f
okay well ive fallen hard for this guy. The problem is that hes the most popular kid in school, and people say he already likes another girl. He does know me though, so we are more of friends. He thinks i am nice, and funny, and smart. But i want him to know I like him. Whats a non-obvious way to tell him my feelings? How can I get his attention?
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hugs
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 8:03 pm
13/f well, im having quite a difficult time with this, but i have been going out with this guy for 6 months. well he is really nice and all. Am i making a big deal about a little thing? or am i not? tell me the truth, but his really really good friend messages me over myspace saying that my boyfriend wants a hug, and why didnt you give him a hug? and that stuff. im just too shy! i know how you guys say just do it. but im too shy for that. im scared he wont see me trying to hug him and accidently walk away. :\ am i just coming up with the worst case senerios? or what i am lost.
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being really pressured
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 7:21 pm
my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. i'm 15 and he is 17. i really do like him but i'm not in love with him. so my first question is...should i be in love with him by now or should i quit wasting my time with him?? i don't wanna break up with him because i really do like him though. and my next one is he has lately been talking about sex a lot. He tried it about 6 months ago but i told him i wasn't ready. he then said okay thats fine we will wait till you are. so i'm still not ready and he is wanting it bad. i really don't wanna lose him to another girl for sex. i would rather lose him because there isn't a strong enough connection than to lose him to lies and sex. You know what i mean?? anyways hwat should i do about this??
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i have no clue about it
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 7:19 pm
ok well i havent frenched anyone before, and i have never made out with anyone before. all my friends have made out with their boyfriends, and well my boyfriend just broke up with me. well i still like him alot, but im sure going to have other boyfriends. i want to know how to make out before it happens. i mean i know it sounds kind of stupid but i do want to know how. i mean (not tryin to be rude) but dont say just let it flow, or it just happens. because i get that from everyone. and i dont go on websites so i have no clue what to do. plzz help me.
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Letting him down.
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 6:56 pm
Okay, so, i think i kinda have a boyfriend, but im not so sure, because he's been in rehab for...18 months now. I havn't seen him in 2 months, but the last time i saw him, he pretty much informed me that we were in a relationship. Heehee, pushy i know. But just a few days ago, my ex-bf started talking to me. A day later, he broke up with his gf of six months, and has been trying to hang out with me ever since. I know he still likes me, but i dont feel that way about him. I also dont think he knows that i have a "bf". How do i let him down easily? I feel bad because he told his friend he broke up with his gf for me. I really dont think its his buisness that i have a bf, because this is like, the first time i've started tal...
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HE JUST WONT QUIT.
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 6:54 pm
Hey. I'm 13/f, he's 12/m. This kid has had a crush on me, a really bad one, since the beginning of this school year. [It's two weeks until the end.. :D!] But he really likes me, and he flirts with me A LOT and he's nice to me and everything but it gets really annoying. I don't like him, I just like the attention that I get from him. But as for his actualy personality, there's nothing besides a friendship there. I told him like 6 times that I don't like him, never have, and never will. (in nicer ways than that obviously). And my friends have told him. He just won't quit.
What should I do!? PLEASE HELP ME!
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He's Younger Than me
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 6:48 pm
well, the guy I like is exactly one year younger than me. I'm going to be a sophmore next year. Should I be ashamed? I'm afraid everyone at church will think I cant get a guy my own age. But, I really like him...I think he might too...advice?
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the boy is coming back
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 6:13 pm
15/f
ok so this guy i used to date for a while is just now starting to talk to me again. and i just now started getting over him, cause he took my virginity and everything so it was hard to move on.
since he started talking to me im scared im gonna end up falling for his bullshit again.
and the other guy i like is in rehab and me and him are supposed to get together when he gets back but thats in 3 weeks. and i havent really talked to him since he left.
im just scared ill end up falling for my ex again, and i dont want to cause he went out with me for sex, treated me like shit and cheated on me like 10 times.
how do i avoid this?
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my friends and well.........sry its long
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 5:45 pm
ok so my two friends like these boys alot, and the boys hang out in the same class as my friends during lunch and stuff, but the problem is , they never talk to eachother my friends and the boys! the boys are really stupid and my best friend like a boy named "john" and we know john likes her only problem is hes a real shallow guy everyone knows it, but yeah he likes to flirt with her and he has told me before he only likes her as a friend but its real obvious he likes her more then that! what can she do, she wont talk to him i think she should give up but she says no, i mean why waste time on a guy who isnt willing to waste time on you!
and mean while my other friend likes "chris" but chris we know dosnt like her...
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love chain. more than you could take.
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 5:40 pm
15/m hi my name is ... well im not going to tell you but you can call me lonly& confused. before i start i would just like to let you know im really bad at typeing. well heres my problem. Im in love with someone who likes my best friend and idk if i shoud just go with it cuz i would rather her go out with him than some other slut. so ive been telling her things that arent exactly truthfull to make her happy because i love to see her happy. she means the world to me. im starting to think that im going crazy not really but like. im forgetting things so i save my convos from AIM and myspace so taht i can go back and see why she would be mad at me or whatever. well heres the big problem she likes my friend and i like her and her friend like...
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who should i choose
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 4:44 pm
ok so this is so confusing and so hard i'm a 15 year old female who is madly in love with my boyfriend of 1 year his name is zach and i love him to death...but he does the stupidest shit like for example he's got arrested 3 TIMES this year and it hurts i can take it anymore and the first to time's it had to do with drugs. the third time it was because he was in a stolen car with my BROTHER and my bff HANGING AND KISSING HER!!!!!!!!! then my ex boyfriend chris is now wanting to get back with me and i like him yeah but when he broke up wit me he said he was in love with this girl melissa and now he's saying he's sorry and he loves me but i don't want to take him back he hurt me...then i'm a new student at this school in eastern washington whe...
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He wants to "downgrade"
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 11:37 am
So, I have been going out with this guy, for a little over three weeks. He told me that he can't see us in the long-term having a relationship because I'm an atheist and he's a catholic. Like, when we get married - everything will just be screwed up. He said he still wants to be friends with benefits, the thing is. I can't understand why he would want to be that, you know?
What would you do?
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I want to ask im out but dont know how
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 9:37 am
f/17
me and my boo, weve been talking for a long time like 6 months, and i think its time i ask him out since hes so shy. I seriously think hes never been in a relationship before and im surprised he grabs my hand wen we walk or puts his arms around me alot. I want to ask me out but dont know how. Hes really shy with that, and how can i ask him to be my boyfriend without flipping out, like getting a heart attack because he gets nervous?????I really want to be his girl, i need advice. How can i ask him to be my boyfriend???
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being scared to like again
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 4:47 am
im a 15 yr old female.
Ok so theres this guy I met at my school.
and weve been talking and everything and he seems like a really nice guy and everything, but im scared of liking him to much or giving him a chance cause i dont want to get hurt. With pretty much all my last relationships the guys have fucked me over pretty bad, and im tired of it. I just want to be with a good guy who wont hurt me. But how do I know if this guys any different?
Help please?
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sex and shavin
Posted Friday June 1 2007, 2:36 am
ok its like this IM A 15 YEAR OLD FEMALE....theres this ...and we have been talkin about havin sex...but i dont kno if i should shave my vagina or not...see i kinda shaped my pubic hairs up a little but there are still hairs where i shaved and dey are all pokey...and it feels weird...should i jus shave the rest off or what??? please help me with ths ASAP!!!! THANKS
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i cheated on him.
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 11:15 pm
my boyfriend, i cheated on him. we have been in a relationship for little over a year, im going to make this short as possible. basically, we got into a fight [usually we resolve and what not] but these two boys were with me when they knew we were fighting. basically i hooked up with them bc i was mad at my bf. i cried the whole night regretting it. i then had to tell him; thats when everything was horrible. i told him, he wouldn't even talk to me, he just walked away while i cried because i truley regret it. he then cried after school because it finally hurt him so much. he even said i dont care if she cheated, i still love her. i dont know what to do, we've talked but things just aren't the same. i know i fucked up okay i just want everyt...
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im in love but..
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 10:53 pm
OK so theres this boy..my best friend actually.Well i really really really like him(i missed like thousands of reallys btw)..and he says he likes me too and that im the love of his life.but he has a gf.What should I do?..I REALLY LIKE HIM IM GETTING CRAZY...and im 99% i means it when he says he like me too.please help!
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