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13/f well, im having quite a difficult time with this, but i have been going out with this guy for 6 months. well he is really nice and all. Am i making a big deal about a little thing? or am i not? tell me the truth, but his really really good friend messages me over myspace saying that my boyfriend wants a hug, and why didnt you give him a hug? and that stuff. im just too shy! i know how you guys say just do it. but im too shy for that. im scared he wont see me trying to hug him and accidently walk away. :\ am i just coming up with the worst case senerios? or what i am lost.
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Just get up your nerve and do it! Once you've done it once, it will come a lot easier the next time, and pretty soon it will be natural. Just keep your eye out for a good time when a hug would seem natural... like if he just did something good and you're congratulating him, or if he's feeling bad about something and you want to comfort him, or maybe when he's leaving and you won't see him for a few days. It's really no big deal once you do it!
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ok, hugs are no big deal, especially with a boyfriend. with me and my guy friends giving hugs is like saying hello. if you're trying to give him a hug and he starts to walk away, not realizing you're trying to give him a hug then just grab his shirt and pull him back or say "hey you, i can't get a hug?"
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k honestly it not a big deal give the poor guy a hug lol after all you have been together for 6 months and i think you could atleast give him a tiny hug get it over with you know you love him now let him know that
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your making too big of a deal. so give your boyfriend a hug. noone is going to make fun of you. and your boyfriend will engoy you. theres really nothing to be shy about. 6 months with your boyfriend you should be best friends by now.
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i think you just need to relax... and im sure if you hug him he wont walk away he will hug you back b'cos it sounds like he wants to hug you and even though your shy... im guessing when your ready you wont even think about it you will just hug him so dont worry about it!
hope that helps
xoxo luv sal
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Awww, this is just about the cutest thing I've ever read on Advicenators.
It's very strange, even at your age, that you've been dating for 6 months and you haven't even hugged yet. If his friend is telling you that, then I'm pretty sure that means your boyfriend told him you won't hug him. Which in turn means that he WANTS you to hug him.
I understand about being shy, and I don't know why HE won't make the first move to break the ice, but sometimes the easiest way to overcome a fear is to just do it. Face the fear and after that, the hugs will just come naturally. Next is kissing. ;)
Don't think about worst case scenarios. Just time it right (like when you first see him or when you're saying bye) and get it over with. You'll feel so much better once you've done it.
Good luck!
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