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love chain. more than you could take.
15/m hi my name is ... well im not going to tell you but you can call me lonly& confused. before i start i would just like to let you know im really bad at typeing. well heres my problem. Im in love with someone who likes my best friend and idk if i shoud just go with it cuz i would rather her go out with him than some other slut. so ive been telling her things that arent exactly truthfull to make her happy because i love to see her happy. she means the world to me. im starting to think that im going crazy not really but like. im forgetting things so i save my convos from AIM and myspace so taht i can go back and see why she would be mad at me or whatever. well heres the big problem she likes my friend and i like her and her friend likes me. but i dont like her friend back. i dont want to lose her on the move to the highschool and i think im really good friends with her. im getting mixed messages from her and i cant tell whats real or whats fake. she told me that she dosnt tell people when she likes them so how am i suppoesd to know when she likes me if she dosent tell me. and she also said that she doesnt ask out people. so i dont want to seem like a total retard when i ask her out because of a sick joke. this is why i think im loseing it. shes really good friends with me and ive always liked her. but i need to know what to do. do i give up on her. and go out with the girl that i dont like but she likes me because it would be the nice thing to do. or do i try to get her to like me. if i try to get her to like me im going to end up hurt. but then again if i go out with her friend it would be easy but not what i want. and she thinks that my friend likes her as much as she likes him. but thats not true he used to like her but now he only wants to be friend. if someone could help me taht would be great. but i dont think anyone could handle what im going threw.
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dont go out with someone if you dont like them. then you wouldnt be happy.
i say keep trying on the girl that you like. always be her friend.i know she said she doesnt ask people out. and thats totally understandable. because im the same way. maybe you should hint around with her. be nice and be patient. she'll get the point eventually. its cute that your going crazy over her and that shows that you really like her. just give her time. she'll come around.
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I don't think you should go out
with her friend. If she likes you now,
it will only make her feel worse when
you end it. And you will if she isn't
the one you want to be with. It would
only make her like you more, and thats
not fair to her.
Its time to get real with the girl you
DO like. If your guy friend doesn't like
her she is wasting her time. Just sit her
and tell her he only likes her as a friend.
Tell her you like her as more than a friend,
and would really like to be her boyfriend.
She might turn you down, thats a risk you just
have to take. Being in limbo and not knowing
is driving you bonkers. If she does say no,
at least you can stop worrying about it.
Continue being friends anyway, because once
you let her know how you feel, she will see
you differently. That could be good for you.
Because she could change her mind soon. :)
*EDIT*
I will be waiting to hear how it goes. Hope it
works out the way you want it to. :)
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