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my friends and well.........sry its long
ok so my two friends like these boys alot, and the boys hang out in the same class as my friends during lunch and stuff, but the problem is , they never talk to eachother my friends and the boys! the boys are really stupid and my best friend like a boy named "john" and we know john likes her only problem is hes a real shallow guy everyone knows it, but yeah he likes to flirt with her and he has told me before he only likes her as a friend but its real obvious he likes her more then that! what can she do, she wont talk to him i think she should give up but she says no, i mean why waste time on a guy who isnt willing to waste time on you!
and mean while my other friend likes "chris" but chris we know dosnt like her, and i dont want to piss her off but she needs to get that through her head , i mean why waste your time on him when you can be trying for someone else who does like you? she is gorgous but dosnt realize it, they both are beautiful girls but the boys they like are stupid.
now today i was talking to my bestfriend, the girl that likes john, and well she was being really depressed and i was like" whats wrong" she was like well lately ive been thinking of killing my self! "omg" i know but umm i was like well why she was like cause i think everyone would be happier my mom said it her self and my sis would like it, but i know her family and they would be devestated. i would be super upset cause i care for her alot she is my bestfriend for life. but i dont know, the thing is, i know for a fact she wont kill her self she is the person who says it but wont do it, and im over 200% sure she wont, but its just the fact she is saying it! that makes me upset., and the thing is, she says its cause of her family and the boy, but she needs to realize tthe bboy definetly isnt worth it! and her family loves her no matter what. this isnt the only time this has happened with a boy she likes, whenever she likes a boy she becomes kindda obsest wit hthem witch isnt good casue then she neevr mingles with other ppl to see wha telse is out there. she stays hooked on one person to long. and i know its not good to do that, becasue if they dont like you wha tcan you do so please help!!!! p.s they are both 15 almost 16 females :) thanks
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Well you can tell your friends how you feel about these guys but other than that, there's not much you can do, right? I mean, I don't really know anyone who can decide to like someone or to not like someone. As for this john guy, there are a million reasons why he is in denial, or are too shy to initiate a relationship but it doesn't mean they are bad people or unworthy boyfriends. Though if you feel these boys are stupid, you are probably right(I don't know them =P)
What you have written about the friend who likes john is really serious; I suggest you tell someone about this, or convince her to tell someone/get help. The problem is obviously greater than john not liking her, but often when someone is depressed/suicidal it's difficult to pinpoint inside emotions ect and a lot easier to blame a situation. You cannot help her directly through this but if you keep telling her how gorgeous she is and how much her family cares about her I am sure this would help bundles. Keep being the great friend you are and I hope it all turns out okay :).
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she needs to talk to him. how else would the relationship work. or you and your friend could try to hook them up. but you have to be extremely careful. because you could just make the matters worse by making too big of a deal.
if the guy is extremely shallow then maybe he doesnt deserve your friend.
i agree with you on the second story. i understand what you mean completely. theres nothing much you can do. she likes the boy who doesnt like her. eventually she'll get the clue Lovey.
i know you sure that she wont kill herself but the fact that she said still means its on her mind. still pay attention to her attitude. if she is serious then you'll see she wiill be more mopey and depressed. she will aslo give away her stuff (suicide victom statistics show that they will give away their stuff to get rid of them like a will)i hope you friend is al right.
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