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im in love but..
OK so theres this boy..my best friend actually.Well i really really really like him(i missed like thousands of reallys btw)..and he says he likes me too and that im the love of his life.but he has a gf.What should I do?..I REALLY LIKE HIM IM GETTING CRAZY...and im 99% i means it when he says he like me too.please help!
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well it seems that he needs to decide between you 2. tell him that he cant have both. tell him how you truly feel about him. ask how he realy feels on his girlfriend. them give him a mental list on how you could be so much better for him.
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I think you should ask him what is going on with his girlfriend and why he is dating her if he feels so strongly about you. The only way to find out is to tell him how you feel exactly and ask him how he feels about you and his girlfriend.
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Steph
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He says you're the 'love of his life' but he has a girlfriend?
I seriously doubt he has the regard for your feelings that someone who was truly in love with you should have if he is continuing his relationship with someone else.
Speak to him, tell him exactly how you feel and that if he wants to be with you then this is his chance - make him choose between you and his girlfriend.
If he can't/chooses her/wants to have both of you then walk away and find someone single.
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girl i hate to be the one to say it but if you were the love of his life then theres no question about it he'd be with you. dont be the backup for him if things dont work out with the girl hes currently with. you need to tell him "if you really love me then why are you with her" no one is MAKING him like her.. so theres not really any good reason..
theres many many guys girl.. he needs to get his feelings strait other wise you can find someone better. (:
takee careee (:
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Well, you have made your point clear as to how much you like him.
Now. He says you are the love of his life... but he has a girlfriend... What?!? I know he is your best friend and all, but I would tell any other girl who tells me something such as this that the guy is a jerk- not worth their time. I will tell you the same, best friend or not.
Being spoken for and telling another how much he loves her is NOT a good thing. If he's doing this behind her back, who's to say he won't do it to you? Guys like that is who gives the male population a bad rap. I'm sorry, but that is the flat-out truth. (But I'm sure you won't see what I'm saying since you say you like him so much, you are surely blinded by your feelings. Nothing wrong with that, just beware.)
Listen. He needs to either break up with the girl friend and be with you, since you are the love of his life- OR he needs to stay with his girl friend and stop telling you that you are the love of his life.
Either way- dude's got a girl friend. He needs to figure out who he wants to be with and stop leading you by the nose, if that is what he is doing.
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