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i have no clue about it
ok well i havent frenched anyone before, and i have never made out with anyone before. all my friends have made out with their boyfriends, and well my boyfriend just broke up with me. well i still like him alot, but im sure going to have other boyfriends. i want to know how to make out before it happens. i mean i know it sounds kind of stupid but i do want to know how. i mean (not tryin to be rude) but dont say just let it flow, or it just happens. because i get that from everyone. and i dont go on websites so i have no clue what to do. plzz help me.
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You seem to care a lot about making out for someone who doesn't have a boyfriend. Before I give you the how-to: remember, relationships do have an emotional level to them, as well! Make sure you do like this future boy.
Ok, well the kissing. Before you start, you have to remember to get into the right position. Maybe you will be pulling apart from a hug, maybe you are holding his hand. You must also be close to him (duh). Whoever's the most adventurous will make the first move (traditionally the guy but if you were the more outgoing one in the relationship, I'd say go for it). Once you have all the basics, tilt your head so the top of your lips are at the sides/tops ish of his. Approach the kiss with a slightly open mouth and then close while pursing lips.
Making out is basically a longer version - your mouth opens more while kissing over and over again. Frenching - I've seen some "techniques" on the internet but you don't have to really know much to french kiss once you've gotten to the kissing stage. All you really have to do is dart your tongue into your partner's mouth slightly while open mouth kissing and he will get the idea.
Like I said before, make sure you really like the guy you kiss before you do so. Make sure this is someone who will treat you right and that you can treat right. Don't feel you have to kiss because your friends have already... I mean you want kissing to be special, not just something you did one day because you were curious and because everyone else you knew was doing it.
Yup well hope this helped satisfy your curiosity and ummm yes gave you some knowledge for when you get kissed :P
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Ok, if anyone knows that it really DOES just happen, it's me. I was a late bloomer with the kissing stuff and it actually just recently happened. The first time, I thought I sucked, but he didn't care. As long as you know the basics, you'll be fine. Now, I'm pretty good at it just by following his cues and doing some of the same stuff he does.
As for the basics, here they are:
-Don't tense your mouth up. Keep is soft.
-Keep your mouth wet, but NOT slobbery.
-Start off with regular open mouth (but not french) kissing before incorporating your tongue. Like, put one of his lips between yours and you'll kind of massage your lips together.
-Not too much tongue! Keep it light and don't shove your tongue down his throat.
If you're young, then it's really nothing to worry about. Your first time, a guy your own age, no matter how experienced he is, probably won't be that great at making out just yet. It takes practice, you have to learn by doing it.
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