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"The one" is moving away. Do I tell him how I feel?


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 10:20 pm

The guy that I think is "the one" is moving 1,959 miles away from me and I having a hard time imagining life without him, sure we tease each other but it will never be the same without him. Also I don't know whether to tell him if I love him so much that I can't live without him or wait to see what happens. He is also my best guy friend and we have a very strong friendship. We talk to each other about everything and I really need some advice before I get too depressed. Please anyone? :'(

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Did i pop my cherry?


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 10:15 pm

So im 13 now but when i was 11 i got my period and ironically we were going to a waterpark that day and my sister suggested putting a tamp up so i wouldnt bleed everywhere, so i tryed and i started crying and really mad like How do you do this??!!?? this stupid thing doesnt go up, wth?! and my mom would be like their are two holes, and shed say make sure you put it in the right hole, and im like wtf? how the f*** do you expect me to put something up my vagina at 11 and know where its supposed to go?! basically freaking out...but anyways now i use them all the time, prbly more than i should but i bleed heavy and i hate wearing thick long pads that feel like diapers :/ sooooo...when the first, first time i did it when i was crying and what n...

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She's usually not so open about sex...


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 9:07 pm

My boyfriend have been dating for a month now. Within a week of us dating, my mom brought up sex. She is extremely tight on that subject, because I've had sex before and she got very angry when she found out, but she said a while ago, "You can have sex with John.......as long as we go to a doctor first and get you all set."

I was taken aback... because I never expected that. I only nodded since I didn't wanna make her suspicious or jump into it too quick. I'm wondering if she is just joking, or is she really serious? What do you think? And if I wanted to have sex with my boyfriend (not yet of course,) how would I bring it up without it having to be so awkward??

Thanks!

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I wanna stop being so sexual all the time with him.


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 9:04 pm

My boyfriend and I see each other almost every week, including Saturdays. We have an awesome connection, always laughing, same interests, never a dull moment, always conversating, keeping the talks going and learning more and more about each other. We are a good match from what he says and I think he is amazing. We have the best chemistry and I think we are inseperable. We're crazy for each other!

But almost every time we meet, we end up fooling around. We don't go all the way, but just a foreplay and oral... He mentioned one day he wanted to stop being naughty and that our relationship didn't need to revolve around sex like all his other ones did... It makes me think he's extremely serious about our relationship even if we h...

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He says he wants to marry me...


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 9:00 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now, and I am sixteen, and he is eighteen. He is going to the Navy in December, but he says that if we last until I am eighteen, he wants to marry me. He seems really serious about it, and it's not like I'm afraid of committment, but I kinda wonder...

He is extremely mature and when he says something, he means it. I'm not worried about him changing his mind, but should I be cautious with this relationship if he brings it up this early? Or is it really serious?



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Any help for my face?


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 7:40 pm

hi(: im 15 years old almost 16. I hate when people say the reason why you have acne is because your growing up! im not sure if its acne but i have bumps on my forhead. i don;t really stick with face washes for that long but they never work. maybe the first day they do but then stop. my sister has the same thing as me maybe a little better and she was to lazy to wash her face so she stopped and it has been getting a little better. im not sure if i should do that to. any reccomendations. and my parents won't bring me to the dermotologist or anything so please help!(: thanks(:

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I love him but i don't know if he loves me back


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 7:38 pm

how do i tell heim i love him?

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:'(


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 7:37 pm

i Wrote a question on here, about my boyfriend of 2 years.. drinking and all that stuff, im really upset.. he hasnt drank yet, but hes flirting with girls,and he just thinks hes too young to be in a relationship, he left me hanging like i was nothing,no.. it really wasnt any stupid relationship..we were best friends,everything for eachohter, i helped him in his toughest moments, and so did he.. both our parents knew about us.. itsnot just stupid relationship.. it was real.. and thats why im so hurt.. i feel like he just threw me away for new girls, for new expireiences, i cant do anything right, i really need you to help me please.. i dont know how to move on, how do i.. how do i forget all those times when wed text,and talk ,and our kissin...

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How should I ask my mom for birth control?


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 6:47 pm

Me and my boyfriend of six months want to become sexually active. I am fifteen and a half and he is sixteen, but this is something we're both completely sure about doing. And we are planning on using two forms of contraception: condoms and birth control. His end is taken care of, but I don't know how to ask my mom to make me an appointment for the gyno. She has me when she was seventeen years old, and has always insisted that I go to her as soon as we started talking about it...but I don't know how. I'm still afraid she's going to get upset and keep us from seeing each other.

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It hurts for me to poop?


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 4:20 pm

It hurts for me to poop?

It hurts and it feels like theres a cut. When I wipe theres a little blood. The only way I can poop is when I drink some green tea. It stings. It hurts tho. I don't want a doctor looking at me down there tho. It feels like a cut, but I dont know. I have been drinking a lot of water and it hasnt helped. When I drink green tea, it makes it hurt less, but it still stings to go. What can I put on it to make it go away?

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Could I be pregnant? I only started birth control 2 days ago.


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 3:03 pm

On Tuesday night really late I had I had unprotected sex. I just got off my period and I started taking birth control. I took it two days before I had sex. So I'd had only taken 2 pills I wasn't sure if he came in me or not. I went to the bathroom a little while after and saw that clear liquid was in my underwear sometimes when I've had sex before it was there but not this much. The day after it happened I didn't feel sick or anything. Now it's two days later and I'm still taking my birth control And my stomach hurts a little but its more like a hunger hurt cause I haven't eaten today. Could I be pregnant?

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Dating a Workaholic


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 2:11 pm

My girlfriend and I have been best friends from a young age. After a few dating fiascos on both our parts, we realized that we wanted to be with each other. We are 6 months into our relationship and we both couldn’t be happier…except for one thing. She works at a job which keeps her extremely busy for about 5 months in the year. During this time she gets some evenings off every other week, and about one weekend off a month. I’m at the point where I love her so much that I want to spend every second I get with her, but my 40 hour a week schedule doesn’t match up with her 95 hour a week schedule. I find myself getting frustrated with the lack of time I spend with her, and the lack of physical and emotional connection I feel with her w...

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My bad marriage


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 11:50 am

My husband is very verbally abusive. He also will not help me with money. I lost my job a year ago and I still pay everything and he will not help. If I leave can I get finacial help through the state or county.

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Are "blowout auction" websites legit?


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 11:19 am

Websites like quibids.com advertise expensive products for 5% of the price. Is this legit?

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stage fright!


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 7:44 am

17/f

My group of 4 guy friends want me to sing with them in their reggae band, and I'm soo excited because I love singing and its on my bucket list to join a band. They play a show at least once a week at local lounges, clubs, bars..etc (im going to be 18 in a month so I dont have to worry about the age). A lot of the places get pretty packed with people.

My problem, hence the title, is my terrible stage fright. I know I have a really good voice, but when I know people are listening I freak out. I was in the top choir in my school, and even when I was with 20 other people I'd get so nervous. The only reason that the kid asked me to sing is that he heard me when I thought no one else was in the room haha.
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dont know whether or not i want to go on the pill.


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 6:39 am

im 18/f

i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had and the first person iv'e had any sexual contact whatsoever with. I also recently lost my virginity to him as well, and he wore a condom both times we've had sex.

Since we've started dating we had many discussions about sex and protection, and we both decided it would be a smart idea for me to go on the pill. However now that i actually might have to go on it, i'm having second thoughts...

You see, a year and a half ago i started to get EXTREMELY bad period pain that would leave me bedridden for up to 2 days. My period ever since i got it when i was 13 has always been irregular. The pain went aw...

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How to get rid of a slight scar on leg?


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 5:25 am

18/f

My sister wanted me to take a picture with her and she wanted me to get behind her sofa. So on my way behind, I got a slight cut either from the wooden part of her sofa (she has the sofa where it can pull out into a bed) or it was possibly a carpet burn. I put medicine on it when I got home, but it just became a brown line across my leg. Is there a way to get rid of it or to even heal? It's been a week, and I haven't seen any improvement. Help?

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dream to be a wife and mother... at 20?!


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 3:41 am

Is 20 too young to move in with someone? I am about to get my bachelor's in a few months, I have a job with which I can support myself,and with a year or two more of experience there it will easily become a career. I live on my own, and I've been best friends with the guy for a year and a half. He is 25, is financially stable, has money saved up for a future family, he is responsible, lives on his own as well.

We haven't really talked about it much, but is it weird for me to want to settle down so young? There's no job I want more than to be a mother and wife. I would love to be a stay at home mom, and then work part time once the kids start school. Obviously, if my husband can't support the family while the kids are still t...

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Friend is majorly obssesed with the one girl


Posted Thursday June 30 2011, 3:22 am

think my friend needs some serious help he has an obsession with a girl he hangs about with but she's not interested but he won't give up he insists on trying to make her love him which isn't going to happen she told him this last time they were out and he took 60 paracetemol so I was told.


He tends to lie about things as well and exaggerates on the truth to make himself look better I'm not sure what to do and he's becoming a danger to himself. The girls already cut all ties with him and isn't hanging out with him now but now he's even more obsessed.

They have never dated or had any sexual expereince what so ever with each other.

any advice would be appreciated or the name of the conditio...

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ex girlfriend is tutoring MY boyfriend.


Posted Wednesday June 29 2011, 11:55 pm

i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 months. we've been long time friends, and dated once before, but now its becoming more serious. lately, he's been getting tutored by his ex girlfriend. she goes over to his house, and he goes to hers all the time. they used to have a really close relationship, and now its getting back on track. he says i have nothing to worry about and he wont ever go back to her. i feel very jealous and insecure. i dont know what to do. please help.



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