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Confused about a guy who i think is giving mixed signals
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 5:31 am
Okay so I've been talking to this guy for about a month over the phone and like he is soo sweet and he told me he loves me. Okay well thats not the problem, the confusion comes from him telling me he'll call me and never does or that when he doesnt call i get all "he doesnt like me" and ive never in my life liked someone this much and i havent ever met him in person. Why do i get so upset with myself when he doesnt call? I'm scared i'm going to mess this whole 'relationship' up before it ever gets started and i have commitment issues and i know i do, but i want to be with him. Does age have anything to do with this cause he is 24 and i'm 18? this has got me all confused and worried and upset. any advice would be gratefull. thanks so much.
xox Kim
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my boyfriend overheard my conversation
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 1:55 am
so my boyfriend travis and i have been dating for almost 7 months and basically im an idiot. i've cheated on him before but admitted to it then a couple of weeks later and well today we were talking on the phone and i lied to him saying my friend and i were going by to go get piercings and really we were going by another guy friend of ours house to go swimmming and so when my friend called me, i told travis to hold on and then was switchiing over to my friend and i guess i had linked the two calls instead on accident and so when my friend and i were talking he basically heard the whole story of how i might cheat and i was gonna hide the towels for swimming in my bag and everything. he then finally after a while told me that he was gonna go ...
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Long story
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 1:47 am
Well im going to try and sum this up as best as I can.
So i guess you could say I had a "summer fling"
it was more like a "sex fest".
But he was still my very good friend and we talked all the time.
I have liked him for sooo long ,like about 2 years.
Just recently,since we are kind of like "fuck buddies" if you'd say ,well we were scared that he got me pregnant,because the condom broke ,and i was very very scared.
I recently got a test and it was negative,thank god because I am very young,but it was deffinetly deffinetly a BIG TIME scare.Ofcourse,he was kind of mean about it and even if i was pregnant ,he wouldnt care [yes i realize hes a jerk]
But I do love him ...
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makeout & not going all the way
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 1:35 am
15/f.
I have never made out. I know its sad, im old! :P But whenever I just peck a guy he tries to stick his damn toungue in my mouth. And I back away like noo! I would love to just go and makeout with the world, but I am worried I will make a complete fool of myself and then like the guys will be like wow what a loser haha. I know it comes natural, but when I'm about to makeout with someone I just get all weirded out and freaked, even with a guy I am seriously attracted to! It makes me sad when I can't just go out and have fun and kiss the cute guy I'm hanging with haha! Plus I want to actually have a boyfriend, and when guys ask me out I turn them out, because its weird to date someone without making out or doing anything. My last ...
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his work vs. me
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 12:47 am
My boyfriend's dad has a business, his dad got very sick and now my boyfriend is working every single day, helping his family. I see him once every 1-2 weeks. I miss him and I know working this much isn't healthy but he tells me constantly he "has no choice". He's very family oriented so I wouldn't make him choose. It's just I would like to see him more, and besides it'll get his mind off work. What am I supposed to do? Wait it out and do/say nothing?
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new guy friend
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 12:47 am
13/f
well i saw this kid sitting alone and he looked like he was about to fall asleep so i went over and started talking to him and asked him if he wanted to sit with me and my friend destiny. he went over and we started talking then too. i found out he was my age. And we became friends and then the next day i was over at the restraunt
again ( public bar and grill for a private lake and i know everyone up there very well) and Jess is one of the waitresses and she hangout with me and my sister and she walks over and i told her to tell my sister to stop calling wyatt chicken. They were calling that cuz thats what his dad called him and they didnt know what his real name was and i said wyatt and then jess said ill get him up to...
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my ex
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 12:13 am
no matter how hard i try i just can't seem to get over my ex boyfriend. its been about a month n a half since we broke up. and i love/loved him with everything. i tried dating other ppl, but nothing works :( any suggestions on how to move on?
15/f
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double date
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 12:13 am
how do you feel about going on a double date w/ someone you just met.but that double date is w/ you and your best friend and her boyfriend
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Boyfriend and my Best Friend
Posted Monday August 13 2007, 12:08 am
I am a college student and engaged. I have been with my fiancé for over a year and a half. Because of a scholarship I have to wait over four years to marry him.
I can tell that he has lost sexual interest in me. It is not at the same level as it used to be. That is though to be expected and I understand that. He does occasionally look at pornography, and I am ok because it is not an obsession.
We played truth or dare one night, and from this I learned that he is extremely sexually attracted to my best friend. He proceeded to ask me questions as whether I would have a "threesome" with her or let him have sex with her. (He has never done anything sexual with another woman, and vise versa... so I somewhat understand th...
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anniversary!
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 11:42 pm
14/f
well ok, my bf and i have been going out for 10-11 months. Neither of us know what day it was when he asked me out. he thought it was november 5, but i know it wasnt b/c that was a sunday and he asked me out at school. i Know that it was in october. well anyway, we dont kiss much, and we've really only held hands once. so anyway, im going to start holding his hand and kissing him more this school year. (school starts this thursday). well anyway, hes not good at getting me presents... like my christmas present was from the dollar store, so was my easter and valentines presents. my b-day was just a week ago, and he said hes going to get me something, and i guess he will give it to me when school starts, (we dont see each o...
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personality/looks
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 11:05 pm
First and foremost, may I say that I am not trying to be conceited. However, it is apparent that almost EVERY guy I know looks at me, sees I'm sexy, assumes I'm easy, and thinks he can get in my pants. This has become a real problem for me. I feel as though no one sees me for me. Nobody sees past what I look like. I don't want to stop being sexy, not that I even try. I think I have a great personality- I'm fun, I'm chill. I will NOT downplay my looks in any way. To me, that doesn't solve the problem. How can I get guys to see me for me?
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guys help please!
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 10:17 pm
okay so there is this guy named Brandon and he's 15-16ish. and like i was at Ohio skate and then like we were just playing around for the first time like poking each other in the sides and then like it moved into more. like every time he saw me then he like poked me which i had no problem with it. then like ever time he came around he started to like pinch/grab it again no problem with it because i though he was just kidding.but then he started smacking it with i was haveing fun so i didn't care and like we just smiled at each other. then he was all over another girl too. once again no problem with it because it not like were going out. but then he gave me him number. but heres the thing he had a babe with another girl and saying he didn't....
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bf troubles f/15
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 9:46 pm
i have guy friends that i talk to sometimes and my boyfriend gets mad easily for that and i DONt like them i LOVE my boyfriend and i dont know how to tell him that he just doesnt get it. Its really hard for my boyfriend to understand that i dont like them. help?
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</3 heartbroken i would love your help no one will answer me
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 9:12 pm
Im a girl & i am 13 years old. I really really like this guy. Im head over heals for him, and i feel so good when im around him. heres the problem: he's taken. I know i need to just wait my time, but I feel that if i wait any longer i will BURST! School starts in one week...and him & his gf both go to my school. I would just avoid him, but i go to a private school with only 10 kids in my class. I like him so much, but i know better than to tell him i like him when he is dating a differnt girl....but when hes with her & im there i pretty much dont exsist. please help me. :(
-heartbroken
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i'm basically crushed right now.
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 8:18 pm
13/f
alright well i went to this daycamp and there was a teen volunteer there. he's the same age as me. let's call him ryan. well my 2 friends also go to this camp with me. let's call them tricia and gabriella. tricia is the same age as me, and gabriella is one year younger than us. me and tricia like ryan, and gabriella doesn't. when camp was over, i found ryan's myspace. we started talking, exchanged sn's, then he sent me a comment saying [these are the exact same words, other than the name] "ur friend gabriella is hot" i'm so crushed, i'm crying right now i'm not even kidding. gabriella doesn't have a myspace and she's away at softball camp, and when i tell tricia she'll also be so crushed. the thing is, gabriell...
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is this weird?
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 7:11 pm
hey im kaitlin im 13 and i like this kid who is a year younger than me is that weird?
also.. one of his friends imed me the other day and hes like EW EW YOU LIKE ERIC ( the kid i liked ) and he goes on and says EW HES A YEAR YOUNGER THAN YOU!! and i was like i dont like him (which i do) and i was like getting mad and he was like im just kidding. but i m still kinda mad about that.
and also, i REALLY wanna let eric kno i like him without actually telling him. so do u know if there is anyway that i can like lead him on? i dont really want to make it that obviouse tho.
i am also scared people will think its weird for me liking someone younger than me.
help? =]
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what was i doing in bed.
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 6:51 pm
so me and my boyfriend we making out it bed and i was on top of him and we were making out and i guess i was like grinding with him or something? what was i doing cause i dont know.
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jealously or love?
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 6:31 pm
Okay,
Im a girl & i am 13 years old. I really really like this guy. Im head over heals for him, and i feel so good when im around him. heres the problem: he's taken. I know i need to just wait my time, but I feel that if i wait any longer i will BURST! School starts in one week...and him & his gf both go to my school. I would just avoid him, but i go to a private school with only 10 kids in my class. I like him so much, but i know better than to tell him i like him when he is dating a differnt girl....but when hes with her & im there i pretty much dont exsist. please help me. :(
-heartbroken
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buying a random gift for him
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 5:57 pm
i've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, i want to buy a gift for him, just because i love him. im not sure what i'd like to buy him though, nothing like extremley expensive or something out of a 25 cent machine. something under 30 dollars. or even something i could make under 30 dollars. all comments && ideas are appreciated =]
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My boyfriend and I
Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 3:53 pm
Hi, This is kinda long but I really need help.
I been going with this boy for a month now and I was really feeling him. Like he made me so happy. But now I dont even know if he even cares anymore. Like I planned on having SEX with him. I was doing to show how much I cared about him. Like i was thinking I loved him. But He had said he didn't love me I understood, but he had said he was lost without me, i asked him did he mean it he said no! So now i dont even know if I still like him or if he likes me anymore. What do ya'll think i should do about this situation? Please help me!!!!
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