Hi, This is kinda long but I really need help.
I been going with this boy for a month now and I was really feeling him. Like he made me so happy. But now I dont even know if he even cares anymore. Like I planned on having SEX with him. I was doing to show how much I cared about him. Like i was thinking I loved him. But He had said he didn't love me I understood, but he had said he was lost without me, i asked him did he mean it he said no! So now i dont even know if I still like him or if he likes me anymore. What do ya'll think i should do about this situation? Please help me!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? boylover answered Monday August 13 2007, 8:11 pm: i know i dont know you but you really could do better! dont let this guy tell you he can live without you and then turn around and be like i was kidding! what a jerk i understand you not knowing how you feel about it if i were you i wouldnt either! you should look for someone differnt someone who you can trust and who you really care about and someone that you can lose it to . . . i wouldnt advise you loosing it to him because of the way he is acting and becaause doing that your letting yourslef get to attached.
SarahBT4T answered Monday August 13 2007, 1:37 pm: Well it sounds like this boy is messing you around abit. I would advise you not to have sex with him because he doesn't seem mature enough in the relationship. If he cant tell you how he feels straight he's not worth it. Relationships take time and seeing as its only been a month you need to wait a bit longer and see how things go, because your feelings could change. Dont sell yourself short, and as you said you dont even know if you like him anymore so if this is how you feel maybe its best that the relationship doesnt go any further. Hope This Helped Good Luck =] x [ SarahBT4T's advice column | Ask SarahBT4T A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Sunday August 12 2007, 10:45 pm: I certainly wouldn't even consider having sex with him until he can mean what he says to you.
You have only been together for a month, so he may not honestly know how he feels about you at this point. Give him a little more time to figure it out, and if he still can't make you feel as though he cares, don't continue to waste your time.
xojessii answered Sunday August 12 2007, 10:42 pm: he sounds like a jerk.
i wouldnt mess around with him anymore.
sounds like hes a waste of your time.
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