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Confused about a guy who i think is giving mixed signals
Okay so I've been talking to this guy for about a month over the phone and like he is soo sweet and he told me he loves me. Okay well thats not the problem, the confusion comes from him telling me he'll call me and never does or that when he doesnt call i get all "he doesnt like me" and ive never in my life liked someone this much and i havent ever met him in person. Why do i get so upset with myself when he doesnt call? I'm scared i'm going to mess this whole 'relationship' up before it ever gets started and i have commitment issues and i know i do, but i want to be with him. Does age have anything to do with this cause he is 24 and i'm 18? this has got me all confused and worried and upset. any advice would be gratefull. thanks so much.
xox Kim
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dont get me wrong older guys rock but that a big age difference, meaning he might be saying this to you without meaning them. also you cant have a relationship with someone you never see try calling a few friends and planning on a movie over the weekend call this boy and ask him if he wants to come hopefully seeing eachother will break the ice and you never know maybe hes not what you expected.
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Wow your story kind of remind me of myself. Such as getting all worked up if a guy doesnt call when he said he would and having committment issues. But if he really likes you, age shouldn't really matter. That's not that big of a difference anyhow. Also, instead of getting worried about him not calling you, why dont you confront him about it? Don't state it in a hostile manner but in a curious way. Just wanting to know the simple truth. I used to think the same thing and all that with my bf. But after I heard him out, he had reasons why he didnt call me nor picked up his phone.
Him forgettning to call you isn't a real good reason but at least he wasnt looking at another girl. But if that persists, you should tell him that you don't feel you are that important to him. although guys are forgetful naturally.
And really don't worry, I used to go through the same thing. Hope everything works out :D
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Well maybe he just forgets to call you or he's way too busy, but just don't worry that he doesn't like you. I know it's hard because I'm the same way, but he told you that he loves you...so that should mean way more than wheather he calls you or not. When that happens, just try to stay calm and maybe you could try asking him howcome he hasn't called. Oh and I don't think that age should matter because if he really cares about you than age shouldn't matter...
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