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I made a huge mistake...
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 2:02 pm
I have been dating my girlfriend for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know she is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to my girl friend and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl ...
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Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 12:26 pm
13/F
Ok so here is the thing, there is this guy, David (I changed his name), and I asked him out then a couple months later, he broke up with me. Then he asked me out and I said yes. Now three months later, we talk on the phone a lot. Then one day his little sister called me and said that he didn't like me, then he got on the phone, and said that wasn't true. Then a couple days later, I went over David's friends housw Mike, with my BFF Steph. Nothing happened, but Mike kept saying how David didn't like me and thought I was fat, now knowing Mike I ususaly wouldn't believe him, but then I was thing about what his sister said.
Then his friends called me and said he wanted to break up with me, but in the background I hear...
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How do I tell him the whole truth? I'm really scared...
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 7:31 am
I'm 17, and 5 years ago something really horrible happened to me. I accidently let it slip to this guy I really like and he said he wanted to hear the whole story, but I was too scared to tell him then... I haven't been able to sleep for 3 days, and I think I do want to tell him what happened, but theres no way I can just bring it up in convresation, I'm too scared, plus he hasnt even mentioned it since I told him, I don't know if thats because he doesn't care or he thinks its what I want...
How can I tell him? Should I even bother?
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sex
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 6:36 am
How do you know when to have sex? I wanted to a few days ago because I feel as though I'm ready. I'm protected and everything. I'm comfortable with it but it just seems like my boyfriend is just coming over more often because he wants to have sex when we have the chance. He says he wants to see me and if that happens, it will. I was talking to my close friend about this. She has had experience. She said the first time she had sex with her boyfriend.. he told people. How can I trust my boyfriend with this intimate moment? I gave him a blowjob months ago and his friend asked him if I ever gave him one.. He answered.. Even after I told him just to keep these things between us. He pretty much let it slip again. But at least he's being honest wi...
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never been in a relationship.
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 2:16 am
Okay so I'm going to take a crack at this advice thing. I'm female.
I want to know what the heck is wrong with me. I dont think I am completely ugly and I even lost weight thinking that if I did that then maybe someone would be interested in me. I'm getting older and I am in high school. I've never even been asked out/ been liked.
Are all guys into blonde, stick thin, popular, sort of slutty type of girls?
I'm tired of seeing all my friends have relationships and stuff and im sitting on the sidelines. I hate this feeling. I dont want the advice that i just need to talk to guys and be friendly, because that doesn't work. Because I do talk to guys.
Maybe I'm just unlikeable. I have no clue.
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In my head 24/7
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 1:40 am
I know her for 7 years, I help her with her dramatic issues, I make her laugh when I don’t mean to, I give her a gift for no reason, when she wants the last piece of pie I give it to her, when she is cold I give her my jacket, and I wish for her to be happy.
I never had a crush before and she is my first one, I been in two relationships (guys) in my high school year but I never loved them (because I used them to get over her) and I only had one kiss. I think about her every day and it drives me crazy. I just found out I am bisexual and I don’t know....am I in love with her?
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Dating
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 1:31 am
Hi,i was wondering what age is a good age for kids to start dating? Im 14 going to be 15 (freshman in highschool) if that helps at all..thanks : )
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boy trouble, KINDA LONG BUT MUCH NEEDED
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 1:21 am
KIND OF LONG BBUT MUCH NEEDED ADVICE.
Okay, so I really like this guy and he's my neighbour and as far as I know he likes me too. He's going into grade 12 though and I'm going into grade 9, and well, I want to find away to get close to him because I am very shy and I don't want him to think I am retarded, ya know? And now my mom doesn't like his family, because his brother who is my age is my brothers best friend, and well my mom just doesn't want me to see them again, and I don't know how I can get to see him without it being weird & looking like an idiot! He works til 4 pm as well.
WHAT TO DO? as many replies as possible please!
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Three's a crowd
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 12:44 am
15/f
Ok well i have two best friends. Let's call them Anna and Austin. Well, I've liked Austin for the longest time and he likes me. Like we reeeeally like each other. The only problem is that our best friend Anna, who I've been best friends with for 10 years, likes Austin too. And me & Austin really act like we're dating. We just don't kiss in front of Anna. And she's telling us that if we want to be together, then we should because she'll get over it. But I can tell that she's lying. And I really want to go out with him and actually have the promise of a relationship, but i don't want to hurt Anna. And some of my other friends that I've talked to about this situation, keep telling us to go out for goodness sake because they've ...
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falling for best friend
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 12:40 am
uhh i think im falling for my best friend again and im scared. i dont want to like him in this way because we are such great friends and i dont want either of us to get hurt. [i got hurt so much the last time i liked him] hes in school and we dont go to the same one anymore but i still see him occasionally and we talk daily. i love the guy to death and if anyone did anything to hurt him id kick their ass. ok well hes bi, he told me, which im totally cool with. but like i dont know i think that im falling for him and i havent seen him in over a month but i will thursday and im so scared that i like him. he has a tendecy of flirting with me in particular so i can never tell if he likes me. hes always told me that he only likes me as a friend ...
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im in love with him
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 12:38 am
its my best guy friend. he's the most amazing guy in the world. he has the most respect for women i've ever seen in a guy his age. we're good friends and he has no idea i like him. he does these little things that make me want him even more, for example if i'm upset and about to cry about something he holds my face and presses his forehead up against mine and just tells me not to worry because he loves me. but he means it as a friend. when we're that close i've always wanted to kiss him but here's the problem. he likes one of my friends and she likes him back. he's planning on asking her out and being as sweet as he is, this is how he's going to do it. he's surprising her at work with a rose and is going to ask her out. to make my situation...
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I can't seem to get my crush to notice me
Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 12:14 am
I have liked this guy since 6th grade now, and i am currently in 9th. I have never gathered the courage to talk to him more than a few times in fear of him seeing that i like him. I don't quite know how to catch HIS eye. It seems like every guy BUT the one I like likes me. It is really upsetting. I really like him, what should i do?
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should i stay with her?
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 9:55 pm
i need some advice. i am 16 years old and my girlfriend is 13 years old. i know some of you are thinking wtf am i doing with her. but i love her and from the looks u cant tell shes 13. im going into the 11th grade and shes only going into the 8th. we get along great. im just worried that i will get made fun of for going out with her and all. i dont want it to end and i love her sooo much!
please help
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my crush knows
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 9:04 pm
What is your reaction when you found out that your secret crush likes you back!!??
and
Is this right? Is it okay to react like this?
I go nervous and started to have gooses bumps, my neck warms up. I couldn’t think straight and I didn’t know what to Do. and i say to myself "okay just relax, please dont go to far, i dont know what to do" and i sweat (and that happens when she leans on me or gets very close or flirts)
Should I just stop being a shy idiot and make a move? (I am a wuss when it comes to romance.)
i dont know what to do? to not make a fool of myself
20/f/bi
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ughh why still nervous?
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 6:49 pm
my boyfriend and i have been going ou for 2 months and almost 3 weeks and i STILL get like nervous/shivers before i hang out with him and it takes me time to stop being like that. is this normal? By the way... im hanging out with him in 10 minutes ahhh
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Does she still love me?...
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 5:26 pm
I am 16/m/uk..
Me and my girlfriend have been gong out for around 15 months now..
Recently, things seem different on her behalf.. As in things have suddenly beomce different between us.. I know this might be strange but sometimes i like to be made feel special.. Throughout most of our relationship we've sort of had an issue with that n some of the time ive felt like ive put in more effort than her..
Recently she started hanging around with a group of guys which i dont pertiularly like but i respect the fact that they are friends and so i do not try and create a wedge between them..
We also like quite far apart.. and this can make it difficult at times to see eachother.. This means when she does go out (which is a...
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Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 3:38 pm
How do you get out of an abusive relationship when you have no money, no close friends and nowhere to go?
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Someone who cares to read something LONG
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 3:19 pm
I've always laughed at people who had "online relationships" or any significant interaction with the opposite sex. My sister had a 2 year relationship with a guy she met online, and they HAVE met in person a few times. My point is that I was totally against it and I kinda feel bad 'cause i ended liking someone i haven't even met.
I guess i can say it's different cause i didn't search for him online or anything. He liked my friend (they met online). I was always the middle-man (woman?) always three-waying them on the phone and letting them talk and have them hang up whenever. She'd even tell me to go online and talk to him for her if she had no access to the computer. This went on for a like, a month.
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breakup
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 1:53 pm
how do i tell a girl who i lost feelings for that i want to break up with her when she is still crazy for me?
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im really starting to like him
Posted Tuesday August 14 2007, 12:36 pm
theres this guy that i have been hanging out with and im really starting to like him. But, he says that he likes my friend. but when he told me he liked my friend the convo was just like
HIM- who do you like?
ME- umm i dont know. you?
HIM- guess
ME- Izzy
HIM- i dont know. maybe.
ME- well the only girls i know that you know are izzy and me. you like izzy?!
HIM- maybe.
ME- im gonna get it out of you. you do!
HIM- yeah.
that was pretty much the convo on the phone. but like.. i dont know what he sees in her. i mean no offence but she isnt the prettiest and shes a total B**ch to like everyone. the only thing about her that i see is that she can be funny at times and th...
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