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im in love with him
its my best guy friend. he's the most amazing guy in the world. he has the most respect for women i've ever seen in a guy his age. we're good friends and he has no idea i like him. he does these little things that make me want him even more, for example if i'm upset and about to cry about something he holds my face and presses his forehead up against mine and just tells me not to worry because he loves me. but he means it as a friend. when we're that close i've always wanted to kiss him but here's the problem. he likes one of my friends and she likes him back. he's planning on asking her out and being as sweet as he is, this is how he's going to do it. he's surprising her at work with a rose and is going to ask her out. to make my situation worse, i'm the one who told him exactly what to say and he was really appreciative about it. i was happy that i made him happy but i was sad that he was going to ask her out. they're not even going out yet and they fight everyday. i know that when they start going out and he has problems with her he's going to come back to me. so how can i show him i dont want to be his therapist anymore i want to be his girl?!!
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Honestly, just tell him how you feel. It sounds like you two already have something there, and if you get it out in the open there would be more of a chance. I always end up being the go-to girl as well, and I know that it stinks. But I've found that when I take a chance and tell the guy how I feel, things change. Just give it time, and I'm sure he'll realize that what he needs has been in front of him the whole time.
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Sometimes telling him exactly how you feel can be the best answer. This would be one of those times, but, only do it when you know he's about to come back otherwise it might look like you set him up with her for him to get hurt. sit down with him and, little by little, tell him how you feel. Make sure he gets a clear picture because, as a man, i know that not all of us can understand signs.
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